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artistic at work, back splash tiles, flirty old man, getting it done one way or another, new office, proud worker
“This is the real secret of life — to be completely engaged with what you are doing in the here and now. And instead of calling it work, realize it is play.” ―
On Saturday I had to go into work to meet a couple of contractors, one to deal with some computer issues and one to measure the curtains.
They both showed on time and did what they needed to do. Actually, the tech guy came, did his job and left. The curtain guy seemed to want to stick around.
The curtain installer came to remeasure the rolling shades I am ordering for the office. He measured them, explained to me why I needed to go with the original measurements and kept talking. I walked him to the door and he didn’t seem to want to leave.
“All right,” Roland said. “Rudeness is forgivable, Blaine; so I was taught in my youth, and the clay has dried in the shapes left by the artist’s hand. But I was also taught that stupidity is not.” ―
It reminded of being in Brazil. When guests leave your home in Brazil you normally escort them to the door and talk for awhile being they get into the car and leave. Sometimes one stays another hour at door talking before the guests finally leaves. And you have to make sure to wait till the car is leaving, wave good bye and then go back inside. It is considered rude to go inside before the car leaves.
Anyway, the curtain guy is a nice older man but I think that he was mistaking my friendliness for interest. I think he was trying to flirt with me. I definitely didn’t want to give him the wrong impression by being too nice, but at the same time I am incapable of being rude. He thinks I am married and I made sure not to correct him.
Finally I said I had to get back to my work in the kitchen, which I did; and he left.
“Action may not always bring happiness, but there is no happiness without action. ” ―
I have been in this new office working alone and already I could see droplets of coffee on the wall behind the sink and coffeemaker so I decided I needed to have a back-splash installed before the employees came back to work.
I was going to use real tiles and make it lively and fun but I decided that at this point I just don’t have the time to dedicated to that. I just need to get the office ready for when everyone start returning in next few weeks. In the end I just went with the easy, fast and cheap route: peel and stick tiles.
“Why is patience so important?”
“Because it makes us pay attention.” ―
I have no patience to follow directions, but realized once again that I should have done so. There were the instructions that came on the package, there were detailed reviews with additional instructions and also YouTube videos with additional tips, but I disregarded them all and did it my way.
While I wish I had paid more attention to the instructions I am very happy with the result. The imperfections are small and I don’t think anyone will notice them if I don’t point them out. Next time I will follow directions, but for my tiny office kitchen this is perfect!
“If people knew how hard I had to work to gain my mastery, it would not seem so wonderful at all.” ―
Ending conversations can be a challenge, if you are quick and concise you worry that are being impolite. If you chat too long a multitude of different reactions can result. I tend to create an excuse to end the conversation before it gets too lengthy. Mea culpa
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Well stated!
I normally talk too much, so I am probably guilty of oftentimes extending conversation beyond the necessary.
In this case the way he kept looking at me made me want to end the conversation before he actually asked me out.
Blessings to you! ♥♥
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Blessings to you all also. I always smile when I hear from you. Like digital vitamins ! – David
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You are awesome David! I like to make you smile 🙂
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I heard those were the thing. I looked for them today and just couldn’t find them, but we only have one nearby hardware store, I guess I will have to wander further out. they sound like pretty nice. I found others but not the subway, which is what I wanted.
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I got them at Overstock.com, but they can be found at Wayfair.com, Amazon, etc. I normally go with the site/store that is giving me the most cash back (I use Rakuten.com).
Some people gave bad reviews but I loved it! Blessings! ♥♥
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The tiles look great and no way I can tell they are stick-ons!!!
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Thank you Cassa! I was pleasantly surprised by them. Looks even better in person!
Blessings! ♥♥
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Good one 😇
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Thank you! Blessings! 🙂
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My pleasure 😊
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It’s so difficult to determine if someone is interested in you or not. I remember a time when this young woman was flirt with me. At least that was my impression. I had asked her out on a date, which she promptly declined. All I was left with was less confidence in my ability to determine what is flirting and what is not.
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I totally agree. It is taking a leap of faith reaching out to someone and asking them out.
I was once told by a boyfriend that I smile too much while talking to people and they may take it the wrong way. At the time I said to him: “It is their problem, not mine”
I now wonder: ” Should I tone it down?”
and please, please , don’t let that keep you from asking others out. Who knows why she declined…perhaps didn’t have anything to do with her not being attracted to you.
Blessings to you! ♥♥
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Itt sounds almost like our version of our Irish goodbye. You start 45 minutes to an hour before you want to actually leave going around to everyone saying goodbye. But, then instead of the wave at the door you just quietly let yourself out. Then someone will look around and say, “Oh! Did X leave?” Every time.
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hahaha, very similar with the going around and say good bye to each person forever. But Brazilians don’t sneak out, it is always a fanfare coming and going lol
Blessings! ♥♥
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Looks great!
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Thank you! Blessings! ♥♥
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Such clever ideas out there. Excellent job on installation. 🙂
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Indeed, I didn’t even know those existed, and that easy to do too! Thank you! ♥♥
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Love your attention to the droplets on the wall and your decision to install the back splash tiles. Although it may seem like a small thing, the ability to pay such close attention to details is what brings a wonderful zest to whatever we do
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Hi Ananda
Thank you for your visit and comment.
This is a great compliment. I have been known to not pay attention to details, so this makes me hopeful that perhaps I am changing.
Blessings to you! ♥♥
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