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“Clutter is not just physical stuff, it’s old ideas, toxic relationships and bad habits.” — Eleanor Brown
Since I decided to move to Florida, I have been moving my belongings little by little.
I didn’t move any furniture, but mostly odds and ends that I like. The bulk of what I moved was all my mosaic materials and pieces, and all the paintings that my mom and brother have made for me.
I had some pieces of furniture I liked but I made peace with leaving them behind. Letting go keeps seems to keep getting easier and easier.
At this point I have only a few items left, including an old trunk. I believe the trunk is from the 1800s based on the date of the newspapers that were inside the trunk, which by the way I failed to keep.
An old friend, who was a carpenter, was working in an old house and there were some trunks in the attic. He knew I love antiques/vintage stuff and said he would give me one since the new owner said he could take them all. Next thing he knows an antique dealer arrives and starts taking them. He was able to get one for me. That was over 30 years ago.
The trunk now sits in a small hall between a bedroom and bathroom. Inside it holds all the crafts that my mother has given me such as macramé towels, embroidered table clothes, and knitted scarfs. And on top of it, one of mom’s painting.
“The more things you own, the more they own you.” — Unknown
I want to lead a simpler life, more nomadic life. I am still tied down because of work, but eventually I want to travel more and spend every couple of months in different locations.
Michael thinks I am like a squirrel moving nuts around. He says I keep moving the same items from NY to Florida, then to Brazil and back. He is probably right. At the same time that I am not a materialistic person I do not like to throw anything out. I have to give it away or repurpose them.
My sister will remain in my NY apartment so I can leave it here. I had in mind having with me anything I really wanted, so that whenever my sister decides she is done with NY, I can just list the apartment and don’t have to worry about taking anything.
I have no attachment to anything material, as I mentioned, so getting rid of stuff actually gives me a high and makes me feel lighter. Sometimes I am envious when I hear of someone that has unearthed some valuable item that they saved from decades ago. That is not happening to me. I have only a few items saved. And those items are getting fewer and fewer.
I have do decide soon, do I take it or do I leave it? I am hoping the Universe sends me a sign.
May your day be blessed!
“Already, in the last few decades, you have realized the utter futility of of encumbering yourselves with superfluous possessions that have no useful virtue, but which, for various sentimental reasons, you continue to hoard, thus lessening your life’s efficiency by using for it time and attention that should have been applied to the practical work of life’s accomplishments. (The Miracle of the Lily – 1928)” ―



It is happening with me also. Now I like basic things in life but letting go the things collected over a period of time is becoming difficult. But I am sure over a period of time I should be able to do it. Cheers to life without clutter.
Hi,
As we age, for some, it seems to be harder to get rid of stuff, as I noticed with my parents. For me, even though still hard, it seems to be getting easier. I had never considered not taking the trunk with me; to entertain that shows me that the the desire to be lighter is becoming stronger.
A blessed weekend to you! ♥
no, this is too severe: all my old ‘New Yorkers’, scrapbooks with my early poems, my first publications in journals, my colourful Mongolian beanie ……
Hi John,
I do picture you surrounded by all sorts of treasures accumulated over a lifetime. I like that. For awhile I did have collections and treasured items, but I keep getting rid of them, as if they have been burdening me. I do feel lighter, but I wonder if years down the line I won’t regret this decision of discarding them.
Wishing you a blessed weekend! ♥
yes, you may but it won’t be crippling. I did a cull about 10 years ago of my early New Yorker s and I regretted it, but you accept you did that and take care you treasure what you have 🙂
I have a VERY similar trunk!
Really?? Cool!!
A blessed weekend to you! ♥
Decluttering is good and it is good to let go! It does feel good too. this trunk is amazing, as it is beautiful, old and has a purpose definitley something to keep. I kept my mums wooden chests and they serve a great purpose here, I love htem and I needed less wardrobes. Old stuff is often more useful than the new stuff. 🙂
Hi Ute,
It is so great that you are able to use your mom’s stuff around the house.
You are right old stuff are much better made than the new ones. New items seems to be made to be used once and then discarded.
A blessed weekend to you! ♥
I absolutely loved the story behind the trunk and painting 🎨
Thank you, April!
Blessing to you!