“Love is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise. If love were only a feeling, there would be no basis for the promise to love each other forever. A feeling comes and it may go. How can I judge that it will stay forever, when my act does not involve judgment and decision.” ―
The second date with the finance guy never happened. He texted me on Friday to cancel, saying he had to drive his elderly father somewhere.
I suspected it was an excuse, and I felt fine about it. We had a couple of more texts that day. This morning I realized he never texted again. Then I noticed that he had closed his account on Bumble.
Even though I am fine with it, as we didn’t really have much chemistry, I am still disappointed that he made an excuse to cancel the date instead of just telling me he was no longer interested.
I texted him, not mentioning I had seen he was no longer on Bumble.
Now I have closure! lol, who needs closure after 1 date? I do!
I wished him luck, and I mean it. He is a good guy, very busy with a test that he needs to take, and we are not a match. Life goes on. NEXT!!
“Sometimes you make the right decision, sometimes you make the decision right.” ―