so Ex has sent me a couple of texts, saying that I looked sexy last time he saw me and trying to invite himself over, to which I told him the truth, which he doesn’t really deserve, but telling the truth is how I choose to live, here is my e-mail reply:
“I am hurting (well, you know that), still crying over the loss of “us” every single day
I looked the other way so many times, with D. I pretended it was not happening, but celebrating anniversaries with M. was just the nail on my coffin
I can’t understand what have I done to deserve this from you
Right now praying every day to preserve our friendship and the love that I still feel for you and that you never had for me”
Here is his reply:
“I love you very much
Always have, always will
I know that we reached a point that I was unable to be the person you wanted me to be
Perhaps at some point I may be able to
You can and do think a lot of things, but never think that you are not loved and though about every single day of my life, many times”
Can you believe this reply? I guess that worst than a person lying to others is a person that lies to himself. Is either that or he is a total psychopath.
So I am not even bothering replying anything at this point, because, obviously he wouldn’t know truth and honesty if came up and bit him in the face, but let me just point out the obvious on his reply:
He says he loves me very much. Words are cheap and easy. His actions do not demonstrate that.
He says that he was not the person I wanted him to be. Amazing how he turns it around like I was the one unhappy one and the one with problems. But I guess in a way he is right, I wanted a man I could trust. I wanted an honest man, that would be faithful, and that would think that I alone was good enough for him. I wanted a man that could keep it in his pants.
He says: perhaps at some point I will be able to (be the person I want him to be). Sorry that ship has sailed. After trying, trying and trying some more, I had to face the truth that he just doesn’t want me. But it is really clever how he tries to keep me going with promises of a future. How he keeps dangling the carrot in front of me. Sorry, that carrot is no longer appealing.
He says: that I can think of many things except that I am not loved and thought about daily. Funny freaking way of showing his love. Lets count the ways: 1)by having all sorts of women coming to the house, 2)taking all sorts of women on dates, 3)by lying to my face many times, including saying that he wanted to be alone to focus on his business and children, 4)by saying that he was not doing anything for me, with me on Valentine’s Day because he didn’t want to send me the wrong message, 5)celebrating anniversaries with at least 1 woman, yep on the 22nd of May it will be 2 happy months with M., and so many other ways the loves and thinks of me daily, but I will not bore you with anymore details.
YES, HE REALLY LOVES ME!!!
please remind me: why am still trying to preserve a friendship with him??