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being in Brazil, cleaning and organizing, Dia dos Namorados, Feeling blessed, feeling thankful, June 12th
“You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.” ―
Hi Friends,
This is just to say I am alive 😊
I haven’t had a chance to go check your blogs and see what you all have been up to. For that I am sorry, and I hope everyone has been well. I will be back to the US next week and hope to have more time to get back to my cherished friends here.
Life in Brazil has been incredibly busy. Not only I had tons of things that I wanted to get done around the house, but I am also working remotely – my functions plus some of my co-worker that remains out being treated for breast cancer.
Here is a summary of what I have been up to since I arrived here on May 26:
- I bought a car for my brother. Dealing with the dealership, insurance, Detran (Brazilian DMV), details about paying, etc, it all involved several days.
- Painted my mom’s second kitchen and eat-in area. Some workers that worked on some water damage made a complete mess of the walls and floor. Not to mention the fact that they didn’t cover anything. In April, when I saw that mess, I mentioned that I was going to clean it and paint it, when I returned – many doubted, but I did. I am very proud of that.
- I painted my brother’s room as well. This room is adjacent to that kitchen and it needed some refreshing. It was also a chance to re-organize and clean it.
- Organized my brother’s room. My brother is not an organized person, so every time I come to Brazil, I make improvements.
- Put contact paper on all the kitchen cabinets. Detailed job. I had a friend that is unemployed at the moment come and help. She has been priceless in helping me with the cleaning and organizing.
- I cleaned a small little house I have for rent. Again, I had my friend help. Actually, she did most of cleaning. I also had to have the yard, cleared of overgrown grass and trees. I contracted that work for a small fortune – everyone here things I overpaid.
- M and I go to Pilates every week day from 1 to 2pm. Even though he works out hard at the gym every day while in the States, he is finding out that Pilates can be challenging. The instructor has been targeting some dormant muscles. I should be in Pilates right now, but I am catching up on work, and I am stealing a few minutes to do this Update.
- Speaking of M, he is fitting right in. He has been helping me with everything. From cleaning, painting, decisions about the car, to doing the dishes and cleaning. He is a keeper. Everyone here adores him, even though there is still the language barrier. He has been working hard at trying to learn Portuguese.
- There is always a stream of visitors at my house. Friends, old and new, that come to have coffee with my parents. Most come every week, other now come more often because I am here. That has always been the routine with my family. We never go to people’s house, they come to us. Which, now that I think of, is the opposite for me in the US. I hardly have anyone over; I often go to people’s house.
- Today is “Dia dos Namorados” in Brazil, somewhat similar to Valentine’s Day in the US, but not that similar. This holiday is all about boyfriends and girlfriends. went out and got me that beautiful sunflower. Here in my town is hard to find cut flowers, we find mostly the actual plant to be replanted. He also bought all kinds of chocolates for the rest of the family.
- I was able to have a couple of outings with friends, twice for dinner and twice for a day trip to the country. I hope to share pictures and stories when I return.
I am feeling so exhausted mentally and physically – there has been many frustrating and angering moments. But I am also so so blessed to be able to be here with my parents, to be able to better their lives in little ways, and to have M. next to me. I believe he is the person I have been waiting for.
Wishing everyone many blessings, small and large. I hope you have many reasons to smile, but even if you don’t, smile anyway. The reasons will come!
ps. sorry for typos and errors, no time to edit.
“…feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back. They teach us to perk up and lean in when we feel we’d rather collapse and back away. They’re like messengers that show us, with terrifying clarity, exactly where we’re stuck. This very moment is the perfect teacher, and, lucky for us, it’s with us wherever we are.” ―