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don't leave the door open, eliminating bad energy, exercising my power, making the right choice for me, online dating
G. sent me the text above.
He thought I couldn’t resist it. I did. I will not reply. I will not fall for the silly attempts.
I let him get back into my life once, thinking that we could build a great friendship after I realized that romance was not in the cards. Then he made those comments about immigrants.
He was insensitive and never apologized for being so. Perhaps if he had apologized the friendship could have been saved.
Instead he continued on with his hurtful comments, making matters even worst. He seemed intent on hurting me.
Now it pains me to ignore him. It pains me to ignore anyone. But I need to stop leaving the door open for anyone to just waltz back in and hurt me again.
I have the power over who I let into my heart and life. I am using that power. I am choosing sanity and good energy.
G. don’t bother knocking, the door is locked for you. Don’t try the window either!
“Attitude is a choice. Happiness is a choice. Optimism is a choice. Kindness is a choice. Giving is a choice. Respect is a choice. Whatever choice you make makes you. Choose wisely.” – Roy T. Bennett
Blessed with a Star on the Forehead 
You are in control and so you should be. Well done!
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Thank you! It is taking time but I am learning. Blessings! 🤗🌻
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If only you could see how hard I’m rolling my eyes!
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Hi Hunida
hahaha, my same reaction! Then I was annoyed. How clueless!
Blessings to you! 🙂
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Good for you!
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Thank you! It feels good! Blessings 🤗🌻
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If you really mean it, block his number on your phone! xx
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I did now, but I think texts still come through. I doubt he will continue if I don’t reply.
Thank you and have a blessed day! 🙂
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Relationships are hard, keep you chin up x
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Thank you! I will! Blessings! 🙂
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Sending hugs and strength. Yay you!!!!
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Thank you so much! Sending you blessings! 🙂
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Love and light x
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🙂
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👏👏👏👏👏
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Stay strong!!! You defintitely don’t need that sort of insensitivity in your life. It’s not worth the effort!
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You are right! I need to surround myself with good and supportive people. Thank you and blessings! 🙂
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why is it sometimes so hard to get “out of our heads”? … to “just think good thoughts”? … because we are wired to seek what is familiar, and sometimes those damn thoughts have been playing on a loop for years, decades…there is safety in familiar. But there is freedom in choice. Choosing to change your thinking, change your story. Choosing to BE Love. Choosing to DO life with full abandon, engaged and with light.
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Very well put! I like how you mention “playing on a loop for years” – I feel that way some times.
The familiar is safe and comfortable and life will continue to be the same, probably boring and predictable.
It is not always easy but it is better to change it up and live it up.
I will take your advice to heart and choose change and always light.
Thank you and many blessings! 🙂
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