“It is not for me to judge another man’s life. I must judge, I must choose, I must spurn, purely for myself. For myself, alone.” – Hermann Hesse
As I mentioned before, I wasn’t sure what to do with an offer I had received. A guy I met on Match is going skiing in Big Sky at the end of the month. He said his hotel room had 2 beds and he offered me one as a friend. I was really tempted but in the end I just couldn’t accept it.
I met him in person and we are still exchanging messages and phone calls as friends. He lives 2 hours away and there wasn’t chemistry enough to bridge that distance for me. He seems like a great person and adores skiing.
It would have been 7 days with someone I barely know. It could turn out to be an amazing experience, getting to know someone and getting skiing tips. But It could turn out unpleasant, uncomfortable, and perhaps even dangerous.
Some may think I sometimes over-think things, but why take a chance of being in a hotel room with somebody I barely know? I guess I will always err on the side of safety.
I am all about taking chances and expecting miracles, but I also believe in making sure I am doing my part in being safe. I like to jump and try to fly but all the while having a firm footing.
I very much believe in taking chances and getting out of my comfort zone but when it involves other people then I have to take a step back, as I never know what people have in their minds and what is their agenda.
“We are our choices.” – Jean-Paul Sartre
I guess I take measured chances. I research, I process, I take the pros and cons into account and in the end I decide using both my heart and mind.
Big sky will have to wait. I told him exactly how I feel and even though he didn’t understand it, I am glad that he didn’t try changing my mind.
Since skipping my skiing vacation is not acceptable, I impulsively yet carefully chose a destination. I have this baseless fear that if I skip skiing one year skiing will be forever over for me. I am new at it and still struggle and need all the miles on skis I can get.
The chosen destination is Breckenridge, CO. I chose Breckenridge because of easier access from the Denver airport.
I am going to be there the first week of March.
If you either live there, or will be there at the same time, how about a drink or bite to eat? I always vacation alone and have no trouble doing that, but lately I miss someone at dinner time. Food time is more fun when it is shared.
Say hi and let’s meet up!
“Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day. You shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson