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“There is a kind of magicness about going far away and then coming back all changed.” ― New Chronicles of Rebecca
Hi friends, I will be visiting everyone’s blogs in the next few days and will be catching up on your posts. I do miss you all when I am not around here. Actually, you are the only routine I missed 🙂
I have been off of work for the past week. This time I didn’t check in at work at all. I totally disconnected, I didn’t even check email. I really needed this break. I don’t care about work as much anymore (there will be a future post about it).
My friend from Brazil is still here. She will be here until next Sunday. It has been fun playing tourist, but also so exhausting.
Among all we did, we spent a day in Mystic, CT, just enjoying the beautiful scenery and stores. We had some delicious pastries at Sift Bake Shop.
We spent a day in Westerly, RI. There we spent some time with my friend that lives there and is running for town council. We attended one of her events, and drove around the beautiful beaches. Eating at the Verandah at Ocean House in Watch Hill is always a favorite for the amazing water views.
We also spent a couple of days at Foxwoods Casino and Mohegan Sun Casino. While we didn’t make money, we didn’t really lose much, and it was really fun playing the slots. While there we shopped at Tanger Outlets. We also had great meals there, specially the one at Ballo Italian Restaurant in Mohegan Sun.
We were sightseeing in New York City for a couple of days. We did a lot walking, which was good since we have been doing a lot eating. The best meal in NY was at Rice and Beans, a Brazilian Restaurant.
Mr. Sweet joined us for that dinner and the night before he took us to an Argentinian restaurant that his friend owns. He continues to be very sweet, being kind to my friend and bringing bagels for my sister every time we meet. I will be writing a post about him next.
There has been a lot shopping. Even though I dislike going shopping, if I am forced to go I end up being the one that buys the most. Besides the outlets in Foxwoods we also shopped at the outlet stores at Clinton Outlet in Clinton, CT. And not to mention, all the other stores, such as TJ Maxx, Marshalls, Macys, etc.
There was a huge amount of walking, which is always welcomed by me. My sister and my friend are not used to so much walking, so we got an Uber a couple of times in NY.
This week will be non-stop again, specially since I have to get back to work. During the day, my sister and I will take turns taking my friend to work with us. Some evenings we will go shopping as she still has some items left on her list, and will also go out to eat as we still have a couple of restaurant to get to.
Stay tuned for the post about Mr. Sweet. For now, I just wanted to say hello. Wishing everyone a blessed week! 🙂
“Distance changes utterly when you take the world on foot. A mile becomes a long way, two miles literally considerable, ten miles whopping, fifty miles at the very limits of conception. The world, you realize, is enormous in a way that only you and a small community of fellow hikers know. Planetary scale is your little secret.
Life takes on a neat simplicity, too. Time ceases to have any meaning. When it is dark, you go to bed, and when it is light again you get up, and everything in between is just in between. It’s quite wonderful, really.
You have no engagements, commitments, obligations, or duties; no special ambitions and only the smallest, least complicated of wants; you exist in a tranquil tedium, serenely beyond the reach of exasperation, “far removed from the seats of strife,” as the early explorer and botanist William Bartram put it. All that is required of you is a willingness to trudge.
There is no point in hurrying because you are not actually going anywhere. However far or long you plod, you are always in the same place: in the woods. It’s where you were yesterday, where you will be tomorrow. The woods is one boundless singularity. Every bend in the path presents a prospect indistinguishable from every other, every glimpse into the trees the same tangled mass. For all you know, your route could describe a very large, pointless circle. In a way, it would hardly matter.
At times, you become almost certain that you slabbed this hillside three days ago, crossed this stream yesterday, clambered over this fallen tree at least twice today already. But most of the time you don’t think. No point. Instead, you exist in a kind of mobile Zen mode, your brain like a balloon tethered with string, accompanying but not actually part of the body below. Walking for hours and miles becomes as automatic, as unremarkable, as breathing. At the end of the day you don’t think, “Hey, I did sixteen miles today,” any more than you think, “Hey, I took eight-thousand breaths today.” It’s just what you do.”
― A Walk in the Woods: Rediscovering America on the Appalachian Trail
Breaks and letting time go, is so important sometimes
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Hi Beth,
indeed, indeed. so necessary!!
Blessings!
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It’s interesting to read your last post and this one together, Ana (I’m catching up too). It seems you really needed the break from work and your routine, even though it probably feels like you barely had a break. Mystic is beautiful, at least the version I remember from childhood. I can still picture the tall-masted boats in the harbor. I came close to visiting when I was in Cape Cod and Providence recently. I need to get back there.
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Hi Dave,
I think I either need a bigger break, or just a complete change of routine/job, etc. I am sending my thoughts to the Universe and see what it conspires to send me. (well, and I plan on coming by with a strategy and not wait on the Universe alone.)
Mystic is still beautiful and charming, but I remember the Seaport Museum being more interesting. I remember the workers/volunteers being dressed for that time period, so it seems strange not to see that. It lost a bit of the charm. Or perhaps I have changed. I still go any chance I have though.
Thank you and blessings to you!
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I enjoy experiencing a city or town so much more on foot, connecting with the people, place, and vibes. I’m glad you’re enjoying your time with your friend and Mr. Sweet Ana.
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Hi Brad,
I agree with you. A lot is missed when one chooses to just drive around. More walking is going along with my idea of slowing down and stopping to smells the flowers.
Thank you and blessings to you!
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Thanks Ana. take care…
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You won’t belive it but I was in Mystic a few years ago. Loved it very much! I remember the rope maker, the print shop, the old whale ship. And of course the people we could talk to: living history, I love it.
🙂
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Hi friend,
It is always a great time everywhere there. I am just disappointed that the workers/volunteers at the Seaport Museum Village no longer dress up like in olden times.
Thank you and blessings to you!
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I especially liked the clothing. But there may be only a few people left who know how to sew these historical dresses. I can imagine the skills someone needs, the time and the costs.
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simpler times then 🙂
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I felt out of breath just reading everything you have been doing. That’s neat you have a friend from Brazil visiting – a whirlwind of activity and you will soon put your feet up when she heads back home. I am confident you were a marvelous host. Mr Sweet sounds nice and if you tell me next you can just relax in silence together – I will be officially gobsmacked!
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Hi David,
She is leaving on Sunday. While it has been wonderful, she is such a great person, I do crave to go back to my routine.
Mr. Sweet and I just are so comfortable together, in silence or in conversation, that is why I predict a long friendship… not sure if anything else (see my next post)
Thank you and blessings to you!
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Welcome Back Ana Star.
So happy you have been having a break and enjoying yourself. I’m staying tuned for your next update on Mr. Sweet! 💗
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Thank you Cindy!
Short lived, but such a necessary break.
No happy ending yet!
Blessings!
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Oh good glad to hear.. don’t worry about the happy ending Yet, xo 😂
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Such a great point Cindy! It is not about the ending, it is about enjoy the process, the day to day.
Wishing you a blessed weekend!
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Absolutely my friend. Thanks. I so will and your too! ❤️
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Thank you for sharing your adventures!.. glad to see you are having a pleasant time with friends, family and Mr. Sweet… when I find myself up to my armpits in work/chores, the words of Rose Milligan come to mind;… 🙂
Dust if you must, but wouldn’t it be better
to paint a picture, or write a letter,
bake a cake, or plant a seed.
Ponder the difference between want and need.
Dust if you must, but there is not much time,
with rivers to swim and mountains to climb!
Music to hear, and books to read,
friends to cherish and life to lead.
Dust if you must, but the world’s out there
with the sun in your eyes, the wind in your hair,
a flutter of snow, a shower of rain,
this day will not come round again.
Dust if you must, but bear in mind,
old age will come and it’s not kind.
And when you go, and go you must,
you, yourself, will make more dust!
(Rose Milligan)
Until we meet again..
May the love that you give
Always return to you,
That family and friends are many
And always remain true,
May your mind only know peace
No suffering or strife,
May your heart only know love and happiness
On your journey through life.
(Larry “Dutch” Woller)
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Thank you Larry, for your kind words and for the wisdom of Rose Milligan!
Blessings!
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I’d say your friend picked the best time of year for her visit. One thing I’ve learned to appreciate since I left So Cal is the beautiful fall colors in most other parts of the country. Is there anything similar if Brazil in particular or in South America in general?
I personally enjoy what I call retail therapy where I browse instead of buying in whatever retail establishments I enter, whether new or an old favorite!
I will need to have my new hip before I can go any distances on my feet, including the nearby new to me outlet mall and a couple of other casinos in the area I’ve not got to yet. As far as results in/from the latter, I view losses as a way to pay for my entertainment. I learned this attitude of gratitude through experience in a variety of gambling establishments all across Nevada!
As far as perspective on new places, I generally learn my way around by driving. I use walking as a way to notice new things in familiar areas. I view this as my own way of practicing mindfulness meditation. Looking forward to being able to get back to this practice after hip replacement.
Also looking forward to your next post re Mr. Sweet. I will not cheat by looking ahead just yet!
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Hi, The changing of the seasons is one of the things I love about living in the US. In Brazil there is no fall foliage, at least not in the area that my family lives.
That is exactly how I see my gambling’s losses – I will spend only a certain amount of money that I would spend in entertainment.
I love driving around new places, actually I love being driven around new places. I don’t like to drive and worry about parking, etc. I love if somebody else is doing the driving 😉
Mr Sweet is…well, not telling you lol
Blessings!
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