“The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, not the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when you discover that someone else believes in you and is willing to trust you with a friendship.” ―
Well, not really. Credit, or should I say, blame Covid for that. Here is what happened:
My friend Anthony’s birthday was yesterday and on Saturday night I treated him to dinner.
We chose to go to a restaurant called Bonasera’s in Larchmont. Since the start of Covid, they have tables outside and live music on Thursdays and Saturdays. Unfortunately, on Saturday the restaurant called me to let me know there was no music that evening. The voice on the phone seemed relieved when I said we still planned on going there for dinner.
“We cannot tell the precise moment when friendship is formed. As in filling a vessel drop by drop, there is at last a drop which makes it run over; so in a series of kindnesses there is at last one which makes the heart run over.” ―
At 7pm we got there and the waiter said we could sit anywhere. There were tables outside under a tent but we chose to sit inside. The place was empty. And it remained empty the whole night.
We had our own bartender, our own server, our own chef. It was awesome, but I felt bad for the owner and somewhat guilty.
I wonder how can restaurants survive. I am not saying people should be going out to restaurants. I think people need to do what they are comfortable with, respect others and the law. I, for the most part, still go out when I have a chance. Still I think about businesses, such as restaurants.
“Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into obsession, friendship is never anything but sharing.” ―
The food and service were amazing. To drink I had 2 cosmos and my friend had 2 Proseccos. We had arugula salad and scallops with spinach for appetizers.
For the main entrée he had a gluten free pasta with tomatoes and capers and a side of broccoli. I had cod fish with risotto and broccoli. For dessert we shared a tiramisu and a crème brulee.
Everything was divine!
After we left, we crossed the street and went to Chat19 to have a passion fruit drink. Even though I had already drank my limit, we still wanted to have something with passionfruit in it. The other restaurant didn’t have passion fruit.
“The greatest compliment that was ever paid me was when one asked me what I thought, and attended to my answer.” ―
When we got there we were reminded that by law restaurants in New York now cannot serve only alcohol, they need to serve food with it. We ordered fries with our passionfruit martinis. The fries were so delicious we got a second order. The martinis were a bit too sour and disappointing.
We left at 10pm. All restaurants in NY State have to close by 10pm now.
We had a great night! We always have a great time together. We talk about everything, our dates, our goals, investments, spirituality, etc.
“There’s not a word yet, for old friends who’ve just met.” ―
I am grateful for Plenty of Fish for helping me meet him 5 years ago. He is one of the reasons I am still willing to put up with online dating sites and I am willing to give guys a second chance.
Anthony and I didn’t work out romantically but as friends we are an awesome match. We had a few dates, then he disappeared. When he returned I chose to welcome him back and we slowly built a friendship that I treasure. I always feel enriched by his company and friendship and I know he feels the same way.
“No friendship is an accident. ” ―
I am on a dating site looking for love, but the potential to meet another great friend like Anthony is never far from my mind. I am not one of those people that say they have enough friends. I don’t!
I know a lot people, but I have only a few real close friends that actually know my heart. Anthony is one of them. We don’t always agree, but one thing remains true in our friendship: the care and love we feel for each other.
“Friendship is everything. Friendship is more than talent. It is more than the government. It is almost the equal of family.- Don Corleone” ―