“I can only note that the past is beautiful because one never realises an emotion at the time. It expands later, and thus we don’t have complete emotions about the present, only about the past.” ―
Last weekend my sister, a couple of friends, and I went to Vernon, NJ. We stayed at a condo on the Black Creek Sanctuary. It is only one and a half hours from my home.
On the way there I realized that we passed right by Greenwood Lake, NY. That is where M. lived. He is the guy that I dated in January and February last year. It brought back some memories. It was the carefree time before the pandemic. He turned out to be a zero, but still we had some nice moments.
The place we stayed at was so beautiful and peaceful. There are tons to do in the area, but we didn’t do much. The weather didn’t help. We enjoyed the pool and BBQed mostly. We also managed to drive around the area and visit local shops.
We will go back again to the same place at the end of the month. We are hoping to do more then. I am also hoping to go there in the winter, as this place is part of a skiing resort, so I am curious to try this mountain.
On the way home we stopped by Greenwood Lake, NY. I wanted to show my sister and my friends the area. Memories of a short-lived potential romance came and stayed with me.
No regrets. Not wanting the past to come back, or change anything. Just enjoying having had experiences and living a full life.
Greenwood Lake: It felt like discovering a new place, or is it, rediscovering an old place?
“Our memory is a more perfect world than the universe: it gives back life to those who no longer exist.” ―