“If you don’t do it this year, you’ll be one year older when you do.” ―
I had a quick date on Wednesday night. I met this guy months ago on OKCupid. I am not longer on that site. He left the site first and gave me his number so we could keep in touch.
I eventually texted him and we started exchanging messages. Even though we live only 30 minutes apart, it was hard to make plans to meet until now.
We chose to meet in Bronxville, NY. It is has a charming downtown. We were going to meet at Starbucks, but when I got there he was standing outside. They had just closed. It was good thing. We walked around and found a better place.
“I feel the need to endanger myself every so often.” ― Tim Daly
The place we found is called Slave to the Grind. It reminded me of coffee shops in skiing resort towns, which was apropos since this was more of a skiing date, then a romantic date.
Let me explain: One of the reasons that we connected was our love of skiing. Mine is more of a platonic love, since I seldom ski, and I am not really good at it. His, is a full blown love affair. He has been skiing since he was 10, and still races from time to time.
I just found out yesterday that he has a home in Whistler, BC, which is my absolute favorite place on earth! Icing on the cake!
He is over 60 years old, but I don’t remember his exact age, and didn’t want to ask again. He looks younger in person. Taller than me, bald, smart, cultured and personable. He is involved in international business. Mostly retired now, he does some consulting on the side.
“Cross-country skiing is fine as long as you live in a small country.” ― Steven Wright
We started talking as if we have known each other for years, and not just months of texting. It was not a long date. We mostly talked about our backgrounds and of course, skiing.
He invited me to go skiing on Sunday and I said yes. I think he can teach me a lot. I am hoping to get a few pointers and perhaps gain more confidence.
Even though he is a great person it seems that we are both more into being skiing friends than anything else. It felt more like meeting a skiing buddy than a potential boyfriend. I think that, at this point, I am more excited about finding a skiing partner than a love match.
Before I forget, I had the mocha with oat milk and a scone. The mocha was delicious and the scone was bad. Is tasted old, I don’t think they make their own baked goods. I would go back for the coffee. He had a cappuccino, which I believe he enjoyed. 🙂
Skiing report coming on Monday! Wish me luck!
“The problem with winter sports is that — follow me closely here — they generally take place in winter.” ― Dave Barry