“Be the reason someone smiles. Be the reason someone feels loved and believes in the goodness in people.” ― Roy T. Bennett
There was a service for my friend’s daughter on Sunday. It was beautifully decorated with sunflowers and white roses. My friend was stoic. We could see that she has the weight of the world on her shoulders.
My sister and I have been around her. We took her out to dinner on Friday night and on shopping on Saturday. This week, as she returns to work, we will take turns checking in on her.
“Get busy living or get busy dying.” – Shawshank Redemption
Death clearly shows us brevity and beauty of life. That is the only certainty we have: one day we will die. So let’s not waste this finite, precious gift. Do more, worry less.
So many things I want to do that I keep leaving for tomorrow. Always waiting for something to do something. The time is now. It is always now.
“Death should not quiet your soul; instead, it should enliven it.” ―
On Friday I am going in for another dental surgery. The 2 laser treatments I had done to try to save this 1 implant worked for a couple of years. The latest x-rays shows that it stopped working. I cannot wait any longer. I will be removing 1 implant to hopefully still save the other 2. Fingers crossed.
“Numbing the pain for a while will make it worse when you finally feel it.” ― J.K. Rowling
Tomorrow marks the 1 Year anniversary of the first Covid case in New Rochelle. We will be observing one minute of silence at exact 12pm. At 7pm there will be “Clap Because We Care” – stand outside or open our windows to make noise in support of health care workers and essential workers.
I thought, that at most, this would last 2 weeks. We are now marking anniversaries. Such a crazy time in this place called Earth.
“The Chinese use two brush strokes to write the word ‘crisis.’ One brush stroke stands for danger; the other for opportunity. In a crisis, be aware of the danger–but recognize the opportunity.” ― John F. Kennedy
I do no like the dentist! Needles in my gums are something that scare the hell out of me.
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Hi Rob,
I am terrified. I have had many procedures such as this, and worst, done before, but it doesn’t make it any easier.
It just makes me more aware of the pain I am going to go through.
Please send me good vibes Friday at 11am.
Blessings! ♥♥
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Praying for God’s peace be with your friend who is in mourning.
I love the hope and encouragement you instill in the reader through your each thoughtful post. Thank you for sharing facets of your life and light with us Ana! 💚💚💚
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Hi Cassa
Thank you so much for the prayers and for this beautiful comment.
No matter what I believe in being grateful and always finding meaning and beauty in life.
Thank you for being a friend, reading, commenting and finding meaning in my words! You are a light!
Blessings! ♥♥
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Right back at you!
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You have a lot going on. Good luck with your dental surgery.
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Indeed Brad, each day it seems it is something else, but I am strong! And getting stronger.
Thank you for the good wishes! Blessings! ♥♥
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You’re most welcome. Hugs.
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Thank you for the hugs! ♥♥
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Hugs to your friend and hugs to you for being such a compassionate friend!
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Thank you Stacy! You have been in my mind throughout this situation. Sending you prayers and blessings! ♥♥
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Your friend is blessed to have you and your sister being there for her! ❤
Well written post!
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Thank you so much Joy!
Sending you blessings! ♥♥
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😊😊
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💜 Paraphrasing Roy T Bennett:
‘I AM “the reason someone smiles”, that “someone” is Me, MySelf, I. I AM “the reason someone feels loved and believes in the goodness in people.” that “someone” is Me, MySelf, I setting an example that others may CHOOSE!!! to mimic’
…it’s ALL Very Well Being There for Others in times of CRISIS!!! particularly Sorrow; please take Care NOT!!! to be an OverCareTaker who may become Disgruntled and Resentful if The Care is NOT!!! Reciprocated, ALWAYS!!! Care with NO!!! Expectation of Return
…💛💚💙…
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Thanks for sharing!!… hope all goes well at the dentist knowing it will help you know a better life!.. as I have found out sometimes one may have to deal with a bit of pain (emotion or physical) to know happiness!… 🙂
Perhaps you can pass this on to your friend the next time you meet;
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there, I do not sleep
I am a thousand winds that blow
I am the diamonds glints in the snow
I am the sunlight on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn rain
When you awaking in the morning hush
I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight
I am the soft star that shines at night
Do not stand by my grave and cry
I am not there, I did not die
(Mary Frye)
Until we meet again..
May the sun shine all day long
Everything go right, nothing go wrong
May those you love bring love back to you
And may all the wishes you wish come true
(Irish Saying)
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Thank you Larry! I will certainly share it with my friend.
Indeed, like no pain, no gain; or no reward without sacrifice.
It has certainly been a lot pain, but I am hopeful that it was a sucesss!
Wishing you a blessed weekend! ♥♥
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Blessed are are you and your sister for being there for your friend. Sounds like a beautiful service Ana Star! Ugh I hate the dentist but like you said the time is now. sending you courage and me to call and make an appointment tomorrow. thanks for the reminder. xo
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Thank you Cindy!
I survived the dentist 🙂 I just hope it is successful.
Wishing you a blessed weekend! ♥♥
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Oh Whew!!!! I do too!
Thanks and you as well! ❤️💖
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I particularly like this quote: “Numbing the pain for a while will make it worse when you finally feel it.” ― J.K. Rowling.
Hope the dental surgery goes smoothly. Take care!
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Thank you! Getting better daily! Blessings! ♥♥
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Glad to hear! Blessings to you too! 💚
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Living through this, thank you!
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