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having grace, having no control, having patience, having wine, learning acceptance, managing expectations, moving troubles, relocating offices
“Our worst days are never so bad that you are beyond the reach of God’s grace. And your best days are never so good that you are beyond the need of God’s grace.”―
I love moving. I think it is the perfect chance to organize, clean up, purge, start anew. This office relocation is the perfect opportunity for me to get this office to look and feel cozy. In my old office I pretty much gave up trying to make it look nice. I have a second chance now.
There is a lot to contend with, but one way or another things are moving along. There are electricians, phone techs, cable guys, computer, movers, building personnel, new building rules, etc.
The old office is almost empty now. There is just a couple of computers left that cannot be disconnected yet. The new office needs a few more things before we can actually move in and start working there. The new desks are arriving on Wednesday. Optimum is already connected, waiting on Verizon now. There are also several things I need to buy, such as a new fridge, indoor plants, a Nespresso machine, etc
It has been a juggling act trying get my regular job done while making sure everything about this move goes off without a hitch. I have been calling vendors to settle some bills and change our address. It has been so frustrating dealing with some of them. It takes forever to get someone on the phone. When you finally get someone, they are quick to accept a payment over the phone or online, but to change our address I have to mail the request. Not email, they want regular mail. How antiquated and annoying is that?
After being on the phone for awhile with one woman that kept going around in circles and not really getting anything resolved, I was getting very frustrated and angry. I was raising my voice and telling her exactly what I thought about her company. Then I heard my own voice whispering to myself: Have some grace!
I paused and took a deep breath. I calmed myself down. I finished the phone call not getting anything done, realizing that some things are not the way I want no matter how much I argue about it.
Getting angry doesn’t accomplish anything, specially getting angry at the messenger. So I am going to trying to have grace when dealing with others, specially when things are not going my way.
“Life is grace. Sleep is forgiveness. The night absolves. Darkness wipes the slate clean, not spotless to be sure, but clean enough for another day’s chalking.”―
On a brighter note, one of our new office’s neighbor stopped by while my boss and I were there waiting for the electricians. He seems very nice and friendly. He is Italian with a heavy accent. We went to see the office he shares the with his partner and an assistant. He is a wine exporter and gave us wine as a welcome gift.
“Grace has to be the loveliest word in the English language. It embodies almost every attractive quality we hope to find in others. Grace is a gift of the humble to the humiliated. Grace acknowledges the ugliness of sin by choosing to see beyond it. Grace accepts a person as someone worthy of kindness despite whatever grime or hard-shell casing keeps him or her separated from the rest of the world. Grace is a gift of tender mercy when it makes the least sense.”―
Wishing everyone grace in your actions and wine on your table! ♥♥
It felt surreal reading this. as if it is from a pre-virus world.
I’m in the UK and we are Locked down because of Covid19. so many people have died and are still dying, because Lockdown didn’t come soon enough. Some people are getting restless and because they are also reckless it’s likely we will see a second wave.
There are different degrees of Lockdown, some are ‘shielded’ because they have immune and other issues so therefore have not gone out for their one bit of daily exercise, most do manage to get out for one allowed walk or whatever. Some are risking their lives to work on the front line, many of those have died. Some tradesmen have managed to continue to work keeping to the social distancing rules many have not been working. It is a balancing act for many, In reality a life or death one. Many politicians are sending out mixed messages, but it’s a good idea to remember some of their raison d’être is to get re-elected, which doesn’t seem to include doing what is best for the people they represent. Sometimes in our moving forward it’s necessary to take a few steps backwards to be ready to take a flying jump. Perhaps we need love for our fellow me/women before we need grace. we all need patience. Stay safe and good luck.
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Hi Linda
Interesting you mentioned feeling surreal reading this, because that exactly how I felt when I first got out of the house and attempted to get some things done.
It will be a long time before it is business as usual but it felt good to be able to get some stuff done, and specially help out some people that are out of work at this point, such as the guys I used to move our stuff.
Here in NY, specially in my town everyone wears masks and gloves and stand far apart. It is definitely not business as usual; and it will be a long time before we get to that point.
And I agree with the comment regarding the politicians. Here and In Brazil, where I come from, the president is doing such a disservice to the people by minimizing this pandemic. Fortunately most people are being conscientious and staying put.
I think grace and love go hand in hand, as well, as kindness, compassion, humanity. We all just need to be more human, and less selfish.
Thank you for your comment and many blessings to you! ♥♥
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Grace is tough under some circumstances but after all you have experienced in your life I believe that you have the patience to stay calm.
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The tougher the circumstance is the more patience and grace it requires; and the harder it is for me to remember that – what a conundrum:! But I am trying harder and harder 🙂
Thank you and blessings to you David! ❤❤
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Are these current activities? Is everyone wearing masks? It just seems so out of line with what is happening right now, and I hope and pray you and those around you are safe.
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Hi Patricia,
Yes, we are going through all of this right now. It did feel weird getting out of the house after being inside for so long, but everyone I am coming in contact has been very safe. Everyone is wearing gloves and masks and standing far apart. No one can enter any building in NY without masks and gloves, actually in my town no one can be walking around outside without masks. We are being extremely careful and not taking unnecessary risks. Whatever we can get done over the phone and online we are. My boss and I have been using a lot of video calls to go over details with each other, but we did have to meet in person a couple of times. But safety and caution first!
Thank you for the prayers and blessings to you! ♥♥
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I’m relieved to hear it. It’s such a strange time for all of us.
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Uncharted waters for all of us, so I have being trying to err on the side of caution. Thank you for the concern 🙂
Wishing you a blessed weekend! ♥♥
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Enjoy shorter commute!
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Thank you! I plan on it 🤗❤
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I love the quote about grace. Thank you for including it.
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Thank you for stopping by! 🙂 Blessings! ♥♥
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What a nice neighbour!
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He is indeed. I see a lot more wine in my future 🙂
Blessings to you! ♥♥
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