If you have been reading my blog you know at least 2 things: 1) I work in New York City and 2) I have mice in my office and they are not invited guests.
It is no secret New York City is infested with mice. I didn’t realize the extent of it until last Wednesday.
I agreed to meet my date at Bryant Square Park. He actually wanted to go shopping and buy me things. A dream come true, a man buying me gifts! But when you never met the person before it feels more like too good to be true and cause to be suspicious. So I declined the shopping expedition, but decided to go ahead with the date.
We met at 5pm at the park. It was a beautiful day and the park was packed. So we thought it would be a great idea to go to Central Park as there would be more space. So we jump in a cab and $8.00 later we are at the park.
It was beautiful, also crowded with joggers, tourists, etc. We decided to find a place to sit, people watch and talk. We get off the main road into a path and that is when I spot the first rat (it was just too big to be called a mouse). I instantly freak out and we choose another path.
It was absolute insanity. Every path we took there were rats. On one alone there were 4. People walk around them as if they were squirrels. The rats didn’t run away. It was shocking to me. I still cannot forget about it.
I love Central Park, but now I don’t want to go there at all. It is a shame that this is happening and I am afraid it will only get worst. I am not sure if it was just the area we were in, but I am not willing to find out.
As far as the date went, we left Central Park and walked around, eventually going into a Movie Theatre. We watched Patti Cake$. I thought it was fun, charming and entertaining with a pinch of depressing for balance.
After the movie he wanted to stop somewhere to eat but I thought it was going to be too late for me to take the train home. If I was more interested in him I probably would make more of an effort to stay and have a late dinner.
When I got home my sister asked how my date went. I said it was fun but I was not sure about chemistry. There were no sparks but I thought I would give a second date a try if he asked.
He was 10 years younger than me. He was from Indian descent, handsome, well dressed and a gentleman.
The next day we emailed back and forth. Finally he wrote and I quote: “I think it was great hanging out and had fun yesterday but I don’t know how you thought it went. I am sorry but didn’t feel the chemistry as bf and gf. Wanted to mention it yesterday buy thought let me sleep on it and see how i feel next day. You are a wonderful lady and deserve to be with someone special.”
It is actually the same way I felt/feel. We still exchange friendly emails.
That was the last date for a little while, even though I am currently talking to 2 people online I have no intentions of meeting them any time soon. I said people instead of men because I am not sure exactly who they are. I know what they told me and I don’t have enough information to do all my Googling. I will write more about them and the situation on the next post. I will tell why this 51 year old woman that should know better is speaking to people she doesn’t know.
In the meantime, SMILE! You are blessed!
“Live your truth. Express your love. Share your enthusiasm. Take action towards your dreams. Walk your talk. Dance and sing to your music. Embrace your blessings. Make today worth remembering.” – Steve Maraboli