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“I grabbed a pile of dust, and holding it up, foolishly asked for as many birthdays as the grains of dust, I forgot to ask that they be years of youth. ” ― Metamorphoses
Thank you all for your birthday wishes. I don’t feel 57 at all. Well, don’t ask my body. Sometimes it feels like 107. My mind keeps getting younger and younger.
I knew my trip to Florida would be good and I was correct. I have a lot to write about about Utah, and now about Florida, but will keep this short and write additional posts in the future.
M was the most gracious and caring host to my sister and I. I asked him not to buy anything special as we would be there for only 2 days. He didn’t listen. He had all kinds of foods that he thought we would like. He had paid attention when he was at my home, and made sure to have some of the same things waiting for us.
There were various types of coffees, bagels and popcorn for my sister. For me it was cappuccino mix, oat milk, scones, macarons and Pellegrino water. He also got prosecco, St. Germain, lemon and lime to make my sister’s favorite drink.
He also gave my sister and I a cute mug (the one above), along with a birthday card and an Amazon gift card. I love that he gave my sister and I the same amount $100.00. He has been gifting me things since I met him. In Utah he gave me an electric hairbrush when I pointed one out in a store and commented that mine was getting old. This weekend we were talking about electric toothbrushes and he had one delivered to my house.
“I was brought up to respect my elders, so now I don’t have to respect anybody.” ―
I am now very careful when talking about things. I don’t want him thinking I am hinting at him buying me stuff. Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy him wanting to make me happy by getting me stuff, but it is not necessary.
On Friday night, he picked us up at Orlando Airport. It was already late when we got to his house so we just had a drink and some cheese and crackers.
He lives in a condo, townhouse style, in a golfing community in New Smyrna Beach. He doesn’t golf. He prefers surfing.
Saturday morning we enjoyed a breakfast of bagels and croissants. We declined eggs. After, we went to the beach. It is a cool beach where one can drive the car on the beach. That was a whole new experience to me. Supposedly there are sharks in these waters. But apparently these are good sharks. Is there such a thing?
I really wanted to feel the sun, so I used sunscreen on my face only. I think that my Brazilian skin never burns. Wrong! Burned cleavage anyone? It turned out that it was one of the hottest days ever there. Lesson learned. Always use sunscreen all over.
“I see birthdays as a reward for having shown up 365 in a row. It’s like getting a badge for attendance.” ―
After the beach we stopped at a local favorite Joe’s Subs where we had fish sandwiches and burgers. Then we went home to get ready for dinner. We could have skipped lunch or dinner, but on vacation my sister and I forget all reason.
We had dinner at Norwood Restaurant and Treehouse Bar. The food was great, but the drinks were awful. We ordered too much food. That night my sister and I come to an agreement: no more ordering of appetizers when out to dinner.
We got home and watched The Whale. I fell sleep towards the end. I woke up with M and my sister wanting their money back. It was great acting by Brendan Fraser, but we didn’t really like the movie. Expectations, I guess we had too many.
“We do have funerals for the living,” Jill said. “They’re called birthday parties.” ― Hope Never Dies
On Sunday we had a late start and skipped the beach. We drove his golf cart around the complex to get a tour. Then we went to a small spiritual community called Cassadaga. It has many psychics, healers and mediums.
M knew I am interested in such things and wanted my sister and I to get a reading. It was interesting. I will be talking about the reading in a future post.
After the reading, I chose Olive Garden for lunch. I have never eaten there before. We were passing by it, and I remember a friend mentioning that he loves their tiramisu. It seemed like the perfect time to try it.
First thing we do at the restaurant? Order appetizers!! We were pleasantly surprised with the food and drinks we got. Everything was great. And the tiramisu was indeed delicious.
We got back to his house, packed and got ready to go to the airport. Our flight was delayed. There were long lines. I try not to let those things bother me. But my sister got a little stressed, worrying about getting home very late and having to get up early the next day.
As I am at the gate, I realized I didn’t have my carry-on. After being sent to different locations, I went back to the TSA screening and saw it on a table. I had to wait for an officer to inspect and then was free to go. In 40 years traveling it has never happened. I told my sister it was her fault, she got me so frazzled and made me forget. She smiled sheepishly, because she knows it is true.
“Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.” ― Happy Birthday to You!
We boarded, it was a quick flight, just a little over 2 hours. Kristin Chenoweth was on my flight with her dog and her fiance. She is a tiny little thing. She was escorted to the plane first. Everyone left her alone. I am not sure a lot people recognized her.
My sister and I will be having a quiet birthday evening. I will be getting her her favorite Black Forest cake, and also the Nutella cake from Martine’s Bakery. I am thinking of getting Walter’s Hot Dogs for dinner.
When my sister and I were discussing what to have for a special dinner, we realized, once again, how blessed we are. We want for nothing.
Tomorrow I am having dinner with my friend A. Then Thursday dinner with my sister and another friend.
On Friday, guess who is boarding a flight to Florida again?
Life keeps getting better and better. So infinitely blessed and thankful!
“A diplomat is a man who always remembers a woman’s birthday but never remembers her age.” ―
ps. Happy Birthday Lady Gaga!
Hmmmm… Maybe buying gifts is his love language? Doesn’t sound like it’s yours though. I think you prefer quality time. I’m glad things are going great though! You sound like you are really enjoying the relationship.
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Hi Mia,
I think he is eager to show me he cares. I am enjoying the attention and everything else. I prefer quality time over gifts any day, but him I think, with him, I can have it all 🙂
Thank you and blessings to you!
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Happy Birthday Ana! Clearly, you’re enjoying M and life.
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Thank you so much Brad!
Yes, I am really enjoying it all!
Blessings!
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Happy Birthday!
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Thank you so much!
Blessings to you!
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY to YOU and YOUR SISTER!! Sounds like a fabulous weekend. Is this the same guy as the Utah skiing one? So glad you are finding some happiness. ❤
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Thank you Monica!
Yes, it is the same guy. There is only him now 🙂
Blessings to you!
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Well, this sounds GREAT!!!
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Oh my! What a weekend. I am so happy for you! M sounds like a dream! But burnt cleavage is the worst! 😆 Have fun this next weekend. Thanks for the updates. One word comes to mind: ✨magical✨
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Hi Andi,
Magical – that is the perfect word for it!!
Thank you for following it along and being in my corner!
Blessings!
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My pleasure! ✨
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Well, happy birthday!!!!
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Thank you so much!
Blessings!
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Sounds wonderful! Glad to hear that it went so well. 🙂
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Thank you Lynette!
It all feels so wonderful!
Blessings!
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M sounds like a keeper.
I would also feel uncomfortable with all the gifts.
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Thank you Granny!
He is definitely here to stay! I need to be okay with accepting gifts and no feel I am taking advantage of him. But, I think that is just a minor details.
Blessings to you!
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Wishing you a very Happy Birthday. ❤❤😊😊
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Thank you so much Aparna!
Blessings to you!
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Happy Birthday, Ana!!
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Thank you Rob!
Blessings!
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Happy birthday! 🙌🥂
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Thank you Christy!
Blessings to you!
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Love your mug (and the story). 😍
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Thank you Kerry!
It is impossible not to smile, looking at this mug.
Blessings to you!
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My husband bought me a giant stuffed panda, soon after he met me, as a belated 21st present. That was the turning point – it showed his sweet nature.
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How cute!! Sweet indeed! Do you still have it?
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No, it succumbed to mold during one of our many moves but she was well loved. 🐼
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Sorry for her ending, but I am sure she was treasured 🙂
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She was!
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That all sounds so lovely. Glad you and your sister had a good time for your Birthday and with him. He sounds caring and really attentive. Enjoy the time together, that is precious.
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Thank you so much Ute!
I am so happy, it all feels just perfect. It feels so right. He is indeed caring and attentive.
It is really precious!
Blessings to you!
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Happy Birthday, Ana! Your choice of Olive Garden brought a smile. It’s such an ordinary (but good) restaurant. I’m used to your descriptions of one-of-a-kind restaurants instead. Who needs the chain restaurants, right?
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Thank you Dave!
I wanted to throw everyone a curveball with Olive Garden lol
But don’t worry, I plan to stay away from franchise 😉
Blessings to you!
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Frost was always right.
Many happy returns of the day…
(As the English say)
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He was! 🙂
Thank you so much!
Blessings!
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Ana Star,
Happy birthday my friend. I’m a bit behind as you may have noticed. I’m so delighted you are being wined and dined and enjoying life to the fullest… most deserved. Great writing making me laugh a lot.
Did I tell. you this guy is a keeper or what? We shall see but for now. I’m loving what i hear. haha on apps again.. they will spoil your dinner you know.. or your waistline..
hugs and love! 🤗💞
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Hi Cindy,
You were right! I am keeping this one. We are keeping each other… it seems so promising.
For now he is spoiling my waistline, but I am thinking we can slow down on the dining out and up the exercise.
Hugs, love and blessings back to you!
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Yayyyyyy! Yes to this…”we can slow down on the dining out and up the exercise.”
👏
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Great to read that you had a wonderful birthday celebrating with loved ones. 💚
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Thank you Cassa!
Everyone was just simple and perfect.
Blessings!
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Happy Aries Birthday to You!!
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Thank you so much, Sharon!
Blessings to you!
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Thank you for sharing and a belated Happy Birthday!!.. glad to see the day were filled with love and happiness and wishing that for you, family and friends it continues every day!!… 🙂
Hope life’s adventure is all that you wish for it to be and until we meet again..
May the road rise to meet you
May the wind be always at your back
May the sun shine warm upon your face
The rains fall soft upon your fields
May green be the grass you walk on
May blue be the skies above you
May pure be the joys that surround you
May true be the hearts that love you.
(Irish Saying)
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Thank you so much Larry! It was fun!
Blessings to you!
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Really glad to see you are in a relationship you love. I have moved the other way. My mind has decided that I don’t mind being alone and, actually, prefer it that way. Not for everyone, but working well for me. Still love talking, though. Haven’t lose everything, after all.
Scott
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Hi Scott,
I am glad to see you here.
Yes, after online dating for over 10 years, I think I have found the One. It seems very promising. Although I was okay alone, I really wanted to find someone.
I am glad that you seem well, and have found a situation that is working for you.
Blessings to you!
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Please keep the happy dating and birthday stories coming. My 68th birthday is at the end of this month and I will be “celebrating” at a Writers Retreat in Taos.
I usually do not make a big deal out of birthdays – mine or anyone else’s. After reading some of these quotes, I might soften my stance a little!
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I need to carve out some more time to write. The writer’s retreat sounds like a great gift to yourself! I hope it is amazing.
Wishing you the most fun and blessed birthday! You are a Taurus like my mom. Her birthday is on May 1st.
Let’s decided to make a big deal of every occasion. I am often very practical with everything, but life is too short, let’s enjoy it all! We are worthy of parades and fireworks!!
Thank you for being here and wishing you a blessed weekend!
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This sounds wonderful, Ana! And yes, the sun shines a bit brighter here in Florida lol
I’m wondering if you like him buying your sister things all the time, too?
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Thank you, KE!
I love that he cares and treats her so well. He figured out that one of the ways to my heart is through how he treats my family. If anything, I would rather he gives them gifts and not me. I guess I am weird that way. 🙂
Wishing you a blessed holiday weekend!
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Aha! Same to you ❤
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oh, yes, Beach life is growing on me now 🙂
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