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fad diets, feeling hungry and okay with it, intermittent fasting, losing weight and keeping it off, loving myself, respecting my body
First a disclaimer: I am not advocating intermittent fasting or any kind of diet or even weight loss. I don’t believe in fad diets, but in listening to your body. Please consult your doctor and do your own research. Only you know what your body needs. I am only sharing what I chose to do to cope with the quarantine and not gain any extra weight.
Love your body and be kind to your body no matter what. It is a temple! And also a playground!
“The secret of happiness, you see, is not found in seeking more, but in developing the capacity to enjoy less.”―
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When I was having my floors done I had the brilliant idea of dismantling my elliptical machine and throwing it away. It was bulky and not working that great. My intention was to get a smaller one after the new flooring was installed. However, my floor, as I have mentioned before, remains unfinished.
Before the quarantine, without the elliptical, I wasn’t exercising much but still was taking walks and a trip to the gym every now and then. My hip and clavicle issues prevent me from really doing the exercises I like, such as Zumba and heavy weightlifting.
With Planet Fitness closed, as well as the gym in my building, all I have been doing are some stretches. I know I can and I should be doing more, but have yet to get into an exercise routine.
“So be gentle with yourself; show yourself the same kindness and patience you might show a young child – the child you once were. If you won’t be your own friend, who will be? If, when playing an opponent, you are also opposing yourself, you will be outnumbered.” ―
When we were forced to stay at home I knew that it could be disastrous to my sister and I. We both love carbs and sugar. Adjustments were in order. Taking my sister’s advice (she has been doing it for awhile) I embarked on the intermittent fasting. The way we do it, we try to stop eating as early as we can the night before, normally around 7pm and then only eat again the next day after 11am. We fast for 16 hours or more.
I always believed that I had to eat something very early as soon as I woke up to get my metabolism going, so my body wouldn’t think I was starving myself and shut down. I had to reevaluate my thinking. There is a whole debate and science behind eating and not eating breakfast. I am not getting into that here.
To me what is important are the foods I choose when I am eating. With less hours to eat I eventually ate less, which led to losing 15 pounds. My goal was not to gain, so I am over the moon.
“The secret of change is to focus all your energy not on fighting the old, but on building the new.”―
In the beginning it was a struggle. I was so addicted to my daily morning meal of bread and butter. I am one of those people that wake up starving. I am not sure it is really hunger or just the routine of eating in the morning. By now I am mostly used to it, but still there are some very hard days.
Unfortunately now my fasting has been called into question. Should I be rethinking the fasting because of the dizziness? I am feeling much better but every day I have my moments of feeling out of focus and wobbly. It is normally when I lift head, and every night when I lay down. I am really almost 100% better but still feeling out of focus has me worried.
The other day my boss, Jeff, said to me: “Dr. Jeff is ordering you to go back to your breakfast of bread and butter. You are starving yourself, that is why you are dizzy.”
My friend that is a Naturopathic doctor said: “Intermittent fasting is great but it is not for everyone. It may not be for you.” He wants me to do different allergies tests.
“It’s better to make a mistake with the full force of your being than to timidly avoid mistakes with a trembling spirit. Responsibility means recognizing both pleasure and price, action and consequence, then making a choice.”―
I have been doing the fasting since late March and it was only in June that the vertigo symptoms started. Plus I have had vertigo a couple of times before in 2019. I want to believe that it is not the cause and just a coincidence.
I am a fan of the fasting because I don’t have to deprive myself of anything I like. I still have my bread and butter but now normally on weekends, and sometimes I will have for lunch or dinner if I really want it.
Intermittent fasting makes me feel more in control (there goes that word that I have a love-hate relationship with). It taught me that it is okay to feel hungry. Actually I am learning what is to feel hungry. Since I have fewer hours to eat I am making better choices.
I will be having a physical this month, so I will discuss it with my doctor. But for now I am sticking to it. It was the jump start I needed to get my mind and body reconnected.
Have any of you tried intermittent fasting? What is your experience?
If you have any recommendation of a good, yet, small elliptical machine please let me know.
“Sometimes sorrow, sometimes joy. But beneath it all remember the innate perfection of your life unfolding. That is the secret of unreasonable happiness.”―
I try to eat dinner early and breakfast / brunch late. I don’t always go the full 16-hour stretch, but I make it a habit of not eating after dinner or as soon as I wake up.
Like you, I love carbs and sugar. My problem is that instead of just me working remotely, there are two other house members doing the same, so I am buying and cooking food I normally would not. This includes lots of bread.
I exercise daily, but I believe it’s the food, not the exercise, that needs to be adjusted for weight loss. The benefits of exercise are many, but I wouldn’t count on it for weight loss.
I think the key to weight management and good health is to be open-minded. Try something, and if it doesn’t work, try something else. Sometimes, a particular regimen will work for a while, and then it won’t. Then it works better the next time you try it.
The only rule I live by is to never decide I don’t care because that decision will never get me to where I want to be. All other options are open.
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Hi Gail,
My personal trainer (when I had one 10 years ago) used to say that 90% was food and 10% was exercise. So even though exercise is important until someone makes some adjustment to the diet they won’t see much progress.
Great point that we need to be open minded and try different things. I never wanted to try fasting and give up my early breakfast but I am so glad that I tried it.
I love your last sentence: “The only rule I live by is to never decide I don’t care because that decision will never get me to where I want to be. All other options are open.” I am going to borrow it and use it in every area of my life.
Wishing you a blessed weekend! ♥♥
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Hi there my friend for a lovely post I like the easy flow in your writings as also your thought process. I vote for a Nay on regular fasting except once in a way after a heavy meal 🙂
I am now following you. Bye and regards 👍
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Hi Dilip,
Thank you for stopping by and giving me your opinion.
Blessings to you! ♥♥
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When I was much younger, I did juice and water fasts for days. I can’t do that anymore and have since learned how unwise it was and is for your body. Now, I do some semblance of a fast, when I notice my body bogging down from overindulgence. Best advice, listen to your body.
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Hi Jolie
Listening to my body is the best advice. The fasting has given me the time to do that.
I hope you are having an amazing weekend!
Blessings! ♥♥
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That sounds actually rather good, I think I try that out. I don’t eat bread much only on a Sunday or when I bake myself, which is not that often. Also I try to eat at 6, latest at 7 in the evening, as I sleep better. I can’t sleep if I eat too late. Somehow I don’t think the dizzyness is part of it, if you started in March with the fasting. Well done on losing the weight. That is fantastic.
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Hi Ute,
Thank you so much! I am happy with a few less pounds.
Good for you!! Eating earlier rather than later and eating less bread is definitely the way to go. It is so incredibly hard for me, but happy to say that I have been able to follow that most of the time.
Blessings! ♥♥
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I managed my weight better when I started to eat light dinner early and no snack throughout the day.
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Hi Cassa
I wasn’t snacking when I was home, but now that I am back at the office I catch myself wanting to mindless snack.
I have to really watch myself not to get back to those bad habits.
Blessings to you! ♥♥
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I was intermittent fasting for about 6 months (8 hour eating window) for health reasons, ie to give my gut a break. However, I found myself slowly gaining weight. I loved that I was saving money but it obviously wasn’t working for me.
I switched from IF to macro tracking a couple months ago and have lost 5 lbs. I’m now back to where I was pre-IF but an continuing because I would like to lose another 5 lbs.
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Oh, and during that time of IF I also developed reflux and started medication for it, and am now trying to wean myself off
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How interesting that you gained weight and acid reflux from intermittent fasting. Just goes to show that diets are not “one size fits all”.
I have never thought about macro tracking, or actually any other diet really, so I am going to look into it and find out more.
Intermittent fasting has given me more control and awareness about my food choices.
Good luck to you on recovering from reflux and stopping the medication.
Thank you for your insight and experience.
Blessings! ♥♥
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Ah…. I didn’t now you were fasting. Well, all you need to do is eat breakfast for a week or so and see if dizziness goes away. We are getting older, because of this, it could be that the fasting is not good for you. Looks like you are getting closer to figuring things out! BRAVO!
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Good point: Just eat breakfast and see if it goes away – unfortunately and this may seem stupid, I am so afraid of going back to my old ways and actually gain the weight I lost back and even more.
But health should come first, so I need to do it to find out. I keep hoping to magically wake up without dizziness so that I can just go on without changing anything 😦
Thank you for the visit and input. Blessings to you! ♥♥
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I have been doing intermittent fasting (fasting for at least 16 hours within 24 hours) for over a year, and it has helped me to eat less overall and lose a few pounds. However, a few months ago, I started feeling cold all the time and wondered if it had to do with IF. During my research, I came across a couple of articles about IF’s potential impact on women’s bodies. Up until then, I hadn’t given much thought to the differences of IF’s effects on men vs. women. Apparently, intermittent fasting every day can wreak havoc on a woman’s hormonal health, so it may be better to do it only a few times a week on non-consecutive days. I have started doing that during the past month an a half, and I no longer feel cold all the time. It could, of course, be a coincidence, but adjusting my IF schedule is working well for me so far. Here’s one of the articles I read: https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/intermittent-fasting-for-women
Good luck finding the approach that works for you!
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amazing post
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Thank you! Blessings! ♥♥
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me to You
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I believe my previous comment may have landed in your spam folder because I included a link, so here’s my comment again without it:
I have been doing intermittent fasting (fasting for at least 16 hours within 24 hours) for over a year, and it has helped me to eat less overall and lose a few pounds. However, a few months ago, I started feeling cold all the time and wondered if it had to do with IF. During my research, I came across a couple of articles about IF’s potential impact on women’s bodies. Up until then, I hadn’t given much thought to the differences of IF’s effects on men vs. women. Apparently, intermittent fasting every day can wreak havoc on a woman’s hormonal health, so it may be better to do it only a few times a week on non-consecutive days. I have started doing that during the past month an a half, and I no longer feel cold all the time. It could, of course, be a coincidence, but adjusting my IF schedule is working well for me so far. Good luck finding the approach that works for you!
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Hi Magarisa,
Thank you for writing again. I searched my spam folder and found your email.
Lately I have been getting so much spam it has been overwhelming searching through it. I will check it often now that I know there are actually real emails there.
I will definitely check that link out. My body is already going through all the fun hormonal changes of menopause, and now I added Intermittent fasting to it. My body is probably all confused not knowing what is happening to it.
Thank you for sharing your experience and that link. It makes me realize that I shouldn’t take IF so lightly. More research and more attention to my body is in order. I will definitely be reporting my findings here.
I am glad that you were able to find a better, more balanced solution for you.
Thank you for the good wishes and all! Blessings to you! ♥♥
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All the best to you! 💙
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Thank you so much! ♥♥
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