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challenges at work, dating and such, enjoying the moment, hip and back issues, new headaches, not online as much
“Lack of direction, not lack of time, is the problem. We all have twenty-four hour days.” ―
Hip Issues: I went to a hip specialist. Looking at the X-ray he said that things didn’t look too bad but he needed a MRI to check things further. I think he was a bit disappointed that it was not something serious that required surgery. This doctor is very involved in new technology and surgery.
He said I have arthritis on my lower back but nothing too worrisome. Because of insurance issues I am choosing to postpone the MRI until the beginning of next year. In the meantime I will be making more of an effort to lose the extra weight I have gained in the last few months. Any extra weight adds to the pain and discomfort.
“The chief cause of failure and unhappiness is trading what you want most for what you want right now” ―
Date with the writer/attorney: On Thursday afternoon I went to his apartment. He is selling his apartment so I was curious to see what over 2 Million dollars would get me in Downtown New York City. He gave me a tour, showed me pictures and talked about the adventures of his youth.
It is a cute apartment and the best feature is the patio and the car spot. An apartment with a spot to park a car in New York City is unheard of. It comes with a $2,800.00 condominium maintenance fee. That is more than my mortgage, condo fee, taxes and insurance combined. I will not be buying an apartment in NY City any time soon.
He gave up the idea of running for Congress and will now dedicate his time to writing. Not having to work for money he can do whatever he fancies. I can see the fun in that.
We then went to a French Restaurant called Bar 6. It was an early dinner and I was not that hungry so I just got a grilled cheese and fries. It was good food Then he called an Uber to take me to Grand Central station. While the date was nice I still didn’t feel any sparks and I don’t think it will appear no matter how many times I see him. We may just become friends.
“If you go out looking for friends, you’re going to find they are very scarce. If you go out to be a friend, you’ll find them everywhere.” – ―
Work: It has been challenging dealing with a new employee that is bringing a whole new set of issues. I am trying to see it as a growing experience. New employee, new product we will be brokering, new customers, new compliance issues. I can see the headaches to come… and also the opportunities.
Dating: It has taken a back seat. I am speaking to one guy that I will meet after my Mom leaves, but that is it. I haven’t found the motivation to actively be online. I am sure I will go back to it, but for now I am okay with this break.
“Make today worth remembering.” – Zig Ziglar
Love this.
Love and light
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Thank you so much! Blessings! 🙂
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Love the quotes you chose, they are all great!
Family is precious!
I hope your hip gets better. If the pain gets too bad you could ask about getting a cortisone shot perhaps. That really helped my hip pain.
Take Care!
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Thank you, I am glad you enjoyed the quotes.
I have tried a cortisone shot in the past and the pain became worst. Apparently it was not done in the right place. I was told to take another one but I didn’t want to chance it.
Thank you for caring 🙂 Blessings!
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Aww I am sorry! Can’t blame you for not wanting to try it again!
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Thank you 🙂 Perhaps I will change my mind on that, but for now I will try other things 🙂
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You are welcome and good luck!
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Thank you! 🙂
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🙂
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So good to hear there’s nothing too serious wrong with your hip!! I hope the pain goes away soon. ♡
Have a lovely week! Thanks for updating us!! 😄
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Hi Hunida
Thank you for reading! I have been lax about posting but I will try to do better.
Many blessings! 🙂
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No worries. 🙂 They’re fun to read whenever!
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thank you 🙂
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Breaks are good. Glad to see money didn’t overcome your good sense. Friends are also very good. I have made a new one, a female, and we get along well. I don’t need any more in my life right now, maybe not ever.
Went to chiropractor today. He adjusted my knee, my lower back, and my neck. I also have bursitis in my left hip. Doesn’t it just figure that after I get both hips replaced and am adjusting well, this would happen? Of course, as all works out and is perfect, I am trying very hard to smile and accept. When the pain eases, the smile will come easier, too.
Scott
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Hi Scott
I know that money wouldn’t keep me happy plus I make my own money. If the right one comes with money I wouldn’t turn him away 😉
I am glad that you made a new friend, but don’t discount ever finding a life partner, just be open to it and see what happens.
So sorry about the hip, I thought that once you got a new hip your problems would be all over, but I guess that is not the case.
Wishing you well! Blessings! 🙂
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Well, the hip problem now is a nerve, it turns out, so not really a “hip” problem. Always open, just getting used to the idea that, perhaps, I really don’t want a life partner…
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Not wanting a partner? that is fine too. I want one but I am fine if it never happens 🙂
Hip problem or nerve problem – it all end ups to being a pain.
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lol. it so very is!
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Must be nice to have the money to just be able to do whatever you want! This writer/attorney sounds like a keeper! 😉😂
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If I could only ignore the lack of chemistry maybe it would work, but I can’t. I am not keeping him, I am letting him go free to go find a better fit.
🙂 Blessings
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Ha ha!! Ya… I guess that’s a good reason. Why am I picturing you opening the door and yelling “go on… Get! Don’t you understand? You’re free! I don’t want you anymore!!” like White Fang. 😂😂
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hahaha, I re-read what I wrote and I do sound like that!! How magnanimous of me letting him go!! lol
Thank you for the laugh! 🙂
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Like me, you count your blessings, you are so lucky to still have your lovely Mom, although mine is gone, for 4 years now, I still talk to her everyday and on any important decisions, I ask myself, what would Mom do?. love your blog and hearing about your life xx
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Indeed we are alike in that we are aware of how blessed we are and we don’t lose sight of that.
Thank you for enjoying reading my activities or lack thereof lol
Many blessings! 🙂
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Love this💕💕
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Thank you! I love that you led it! Blessings 🙂
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🙂👍
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