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“Tenderness and kindness are not signs of weakness and despair, but manifestations of strength and resolution.” ― Kahlil Gibran
Time is short, so here is a quick summary of my quick trip to Park City, Utah.
I had the most awesome time. M is the most thoughtful and caring guy I ever met. He was always making sure that everything was exactly how I wanted. I had to keep reminding him that it is not all about me. oh wait, it should be all about me 😉
And the mountains are just majestic! A mixture of beauty, freedom and happiness permeates the air. And yes, a bit of fear and panic I get some times.
I arrived in Salt Lake City on Saturday, we spent the night there and drove to Park City the next day. No skiing on Sunday, just getting our equipment, getting to know the town, and getting to our charming 1-bedroom condo with a balcony and fireplace.
I had been to Park City in 2015, it was fun to remember some areas.
We skied only 2 days, Monday and Tuesday. On Monday I did okay. I still struggle with fear. The moment I pick up speed or it is a steeper hill I lose confidence. Still, I love it! I love the challenge; I love the freedom.
On Tuesday, while in line to get our skis M befriended an older man that is a ski instructor in a resort in Virginia. He offered to give me a few pointers. He spent the whole day teaching me. It is incredible to see how much I improved from one day to the next. I take lessons every time I go skiing, but this time I didn’t book any. This man was so helpful. His instructions really boosted my confidence.
We bought him lunch, and at the end of the day we gave him $100 as an appreciation. We asked if we could buy him dinner. He said it was not necessary, but accepted.
“Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all others.” ― Marcus Tullius Cicero
I had memorable meals, and forgettable meals. The memorable ones were at:
• Aqua Terra Steak Sushi in Salt Lake. The best ever! Everything about this restaurant was awesome. He had sushi, and salmon. I had the black cod. To drink I had the Golden Goose and he had the Garden Party. Best drinks ever! We shared a chocolate tart for dessert.
• 710 Bodega in Park City. We had a bunch of tapas, including patatas bravas, almondigas for me, shrimp for him, and others. To drink he had beer, I had the Laverstoke- I asked for vodka instead of gin. The waiter said no one ever asked for that before, but it was so delicious. For dessert we shared the Broken Pavlova -Yummy!
• Baan Thai Cuisine in Park City. We had noodles, spring rolls, sticky rice, and chicken satay (not my favorite, but still good). Lychee martini for me, beer for him. Great meal!
I bought my ticket to Salt Lake City, and he paid for everything else, lodging, lift tickets, meals, etc as my birthday present. The big 57 is on Tuesday. He even wanted to pay for the souvenirs I bought for my family. I didn’t let him do it, though. I felt it would be taking advantage of his kindness.
On Wednesday morning we left Park City and drove to Salt Lake City Airport. My flight was leaving first, his would take another 5 hours. He made a point of making sure to be there when I arrived and also when I left, even if it meant staying at the airport several more hours.
“Pursue what catches your heart, not what catches your eyes.” ― Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart
I got home Wednesday at 9:30pm. I worked Thursday, and part of today. At 5pm my sister and I are flying to his house in New Smyrna Beach, Florida for the weekend.
It is a quick trip, just as a trial to see how would this long distance relationship work. He will be showing us around and also talking us to dinner for our birthdays (sis and I). He had offered to fly to NY to take us out to dinner on Tuesday, but I decided to go there this weekend instead.
I remain very happy and excited about this blossoming relationship. I am afraid to talk too much about and jinx it. I will be mentioning some additional details about Park City as time permits.
Stay tuned for the Florida report.
“It’s amazing how a little tomorrow can make up for a whole lot of yesterday.” ―
Paula Light said:
Wonderful! Enjoy! And happy upcoming birthday! 🎉
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you so much, Paula!
Wishing you a blessed week!
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Andi said:
Oh my gosh…I’m just so happy for you. ♥️ I just couldn’t wait for you to write again. Thank you for sharing!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Andi,
Thank you so much!
I will posting about the Florida trip today. All happiness!
Blessings!
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Andi said:
Oh! And Happy Birthday! 🎉
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you so much! It is tomorrow, March 28 🙂
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Andi said:
HAPPY 🎉 BIRTHDAY, dear Ana! My new sweet friend!!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you so much Andi! I feel your warm wishes and my heart sings!
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The V Pub said:
Fantastic! Sounds like a perfectly splendid getaway. Fingers crossed for the future!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Rob,
Thank you so much! It has been all fantastic indeed 🙂
A blessed week to you!
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Writing to Freedom said:
Congratulations Ana. He sounds like a wonderful guy. I hope you enjoy your weekend in FL and continue to enjoy each other’s company.
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you so much Brad!
It all has been great. I will be posting about Florida later.
Thank you for the good wishes!
Blessings!
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Cassa Bassa said:
Happy Birthday Ana, great to see you celebrate with things you enjoy doing and with great company. Blessings!!!!!!💚
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you so much for the birthday wishes, Cassa!
Wishing you a blessed week!
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utesmile said:
It sounds so lovely, you did your skiimg and had even more fun around it. Enjoy while you can.
See how Florida is. As you are thinking of retiring anyway one day, you don’t need to be in New York.
Keep an open mind.
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Ute,
It has been all so lovely. I will be writing about Florida later.
Funny thing is, I never wanted to retire and live in Florida. I guess we should never say never lol.
Great advice!
Thank you and a blessed week to you!
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MyLittleBird123 said:
Dear Ana, You did a book review several years ago, A Bird and the Dragon: Their Love Story: A Memoir. And what you are describing with M is just like it was for Sy and me. We had 35 years and I’m hoping the same for you. The kindest man I had ever met. Hugs, Birdie
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Birdie,
I remembered it. Sy sounded amazing, so loving and caring to you. M is the same. I am feeling so blessed!
Thank you and blessings to you!
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Lynette d'Arty-Cross said:
Happy Birthday! 🎉 I’m looking forward to hearing about your next visit!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you so much Lynette!
I will be writing about Florida today!
Blessings to you!
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Aletta - nowathome said:
Sounds like a lot of fun. Happy birthday to you and your sister!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Aletta,
It has been so much fun!! We both thank you!
Blessings to you!
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Aletta - nowathome said:
I am glad you had a great time. 💐
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you Aletta!
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Ab said:
Sounded like a wonderful trip and that was a nice thing you did for the older instructor!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Ab,
It was so, so great!
He was just such a nice person, that we had to somehow, do something in return.
Thank you and wishing you a blessed week!
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mariezhuikov said:
Sounds like you may have found a good one!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Marie,
I think I finally did!
Thank you for the visit and blessings to you!
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DutchIl said:
Thank you for sharing your adventure and a part of your world!.. glad to see that you and M are having a wonderful time together… good idea not to put much pressure or expectations on what it may become, just nurture with TLC like a flower and see what blooms… 🙂
Hope your path is paved with peace, joy and love and until we meet again…
May the love that you give
Always return to you,
That family and friends are many
And always remain true,
May your mind only know peace
No suffering or strife,
May your heart only know love and happiness
On your journey through life.
(Larry “Dutch” Woller)
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Larry,
Thank you for the great advice. We are trying to just be in the moment, and not expect too much.
“just nurture with TLC like a flower and see what blooms” – I love that!
Blessings to you!
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mistywords12 said:
Wonderful. And happy birthday. Hope Florida is equally amazing
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Misty,
It was. I just wrote about it.
Thank you and blessings to you!
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Dave said:
Good for you, Ana. Sounds like you’ve found someone who has the determination (and resources) to make long-distance work. More importantly, I sense serious chemistry behind your words This is the second or third chapter of the relationship you’ve shared without mentioning a single misgiving. Looking forward to hearing about the next chapter in Florida!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you Dave!
You are right; so far there is nothing about him that gives me pause. He is as excited about this relationship as I am.
Stay tuned…
Blessings!
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chattykerry said:
Your post made me very happy, Ana. Happy Belated Birthday, too. 💐🎈🎂 You seem to be very relaxed with your beau, and that’s a good sign. Enjoy the moment and live in the present. Hugs K x 🤗
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you Kerry!
Everything feels so comfortable with him. It feels as if I have known him for ages, and it has only been 1 month.
Thank you for advice and wishes! Blessings!
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chattykerry said:
💗💗💗
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SaaniaSparkle 🧚🏻♀️ said:
Lovely ❤
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you Saania!
Blessings!
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SaaniaSparkle 🧚🏻♀️ said:
My pleasure
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Ritish Sharma said:
I couldn’t agree more with the quote you shared from Kahlil Gibran. Tenderness and kindness are often misunderstood as weaknesses, but in reality, they require a lot of strength and courage. It sounds like you had a great time skiing, exploring the town, and enjoying some delicious meals.
I hope your long-distance relationship with M works out well, and I look forward to hearing more about your adventures together. Best of luck!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Ritish,
Thank you so much for the visit and great wishes!
I look forward to having many great adventures to share.
Blessings to you!
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Ayi Ariquater said:
Nice
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you!
Blessings!
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Manya Dhingra said:
This is so great! The first post I read and yeah it and my heart!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Manya,
Thank you for the visit!
Blessings to you!
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JodyJ said:
Salt Lake is my second home. I worked in Park City as a Massage Therapist. I miss it every day!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Jody,
It was such a wonderful trip! Park City was paradise.
Do you still work as a therapist? I hope you are happy where you are living now.
Blessings!
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JodyJ said:
I do not anymore however I’m working on a new adventure and I’m peaceful here in Wisconsin where I grew up. Some day I’ll go back to Utah.😉❤️
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A Star on the Forehead said:
A new adventure? cool, wishing you luck with it!
I never been to Wisconsin, but it is on my list!
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JodyJ said:
Thank you so much!💚
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kegarland said:
Yaay! M is hanging in there. I’m still not going to get too excited, though lol
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi KE,
That is wise! lol
But this is feeling like the real thing!! Stay tuned…
Blessings!
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kegarland said:
🤞🏽
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kegarland said:
OH! And happy BELATED birthday 🥳
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you so much!!
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C.Beyond said:
This is beautiful I can’t wait to write about my love story.This is inspiring
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you Jane!
It has been many years of searching for it, now I get to live my fairy-tale.
Many blessings to you!
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