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“Youth is happy because it has the capacity to see beauty. Anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty never grows old.” ―
I am in Brazil at the moment. I came to see my family and bring my mom back with me to spend 3 weeks in NY.
I have started multiple posts, but time is even shorter here, so I haven’t been able to finish any, so I am going to attempt to quickly write and post this. Fingers crossed and forgive any typos.
I want to write about my ride to the airport. My cousin was going to drive me, but he was going to try to fit me in between a couple of rides that he already had (he is a driver for a car service). That didn’t work out.
For a moment I considered having B take me. He had offered when he heard I was taking a trip. But I had said my cousin was going to take me. I had already asked him for a ride on Monday when I had a colonoscopy. I didn’t want to use him this way again.
So I decided to call an Uber. My experience with Uber to go to the airport is not the best. Most Ubers don’t want to go to the airport on a Friday, so they normally cancel.
I booked the ride and got the message that Jose would be coming in 12 minutes. I took all my 3 pieces of luggage outside in the front of the building. After 12 minutes I realized that Jose was driving to the back of the building. I called him and asked him to wait.
I had to take all 3 pieces of heavy luggage through the building and parking lot to the back. For the record, that was easier than asking him to drive around. Main Street New Rochelle has been a horror show with construction traffic.
Finally I get to the car, get my luggage in and get settled in. I always try to make conversation with the driver. Not everyone is responsive, Jose was. The ride turned into a very inspiring experience.
Jose, my driver, was turning 80 years old on that day!! I was in awe of how great he looked for his age, but not only that, I was impressed but his attitude.
We talked about everything, life, well-being, plans for the future, etc. Next year, when he turns 81, he plans to retire, move back to the Dominic Republic and study architecture. Meeting people like this gives me life.
“You are never too old to become younger!” ―
He talked about how he keeps in such amazing shape, physically, mentally and spiritually. He shared with me some of his routine:
- exercises at least 2 hours a day
- no medication, he treats everything with natural remedies
- his Bible: Alternative Cures by Bill Gotlieb (see pic at the top)
- doesn’t watch tv, invests his time in reading and exercise
- doesn’t stay on the phone chit-chatting with friends, no time for that. His friends know he is there if they need him.
- stops working everyday at 6pm religiously.
- chooses gratitude every morning.
- chooses to be happy no matter what is going on
- massages – carries a massager with him, and at every opportunity he massages his back, face, feet, etc (see pic at the bottom)
- adores life
His daughters wanted to pay his rent, but he said if he accepted that, then he would have to accept them meddling into his life.
He drove slow and safe through a very busy Friday rush hour. It was as if his was the only car on the road. It was the most serene drive to the airport ever. Happy 80th birthday to Jose. May God bless all his days.
Jose and his positive attitude, and every older person that I meet that is full of life and plans, inspires me to live more and fully. The key to getting older but not feeling older it to always continue learning, growing, and looking to become better of body, mind and soul.
I realize that life at 56 is just beginning.
“Be game–take a chance–don’t hide behind veils and veils of discretion… Go forward with what you have to say, expressing things as you see them. You are new evidence, fresh and young. Your work, the spirit of youth, you are the progress of human evolution. If age dulls you it will be time enough then to be ponderous and heavy–or quit. It takes a tremendous amount of courage to be young, to continue growing–not to settle and accept.” ― The Art Spirit
bodhisattvaintraining said:
such a lovely story!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you so much! Blessings!
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Writing to Freedom said:
Jose sounds like a wonderful person and inspiration. Great way to start your trip Ana. To living fully!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Brad,
He was, and is, I haven’t been speaking about him daily.
Thank you and blessings to you!
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Writing to Freedom said:
Enjoy your trip!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you! On the way back already 🙂
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Andi said:
Thanks to you and Jose for the inspiration I need today.
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Andi,
I am so glad it inspired you as much as it did me.
Blessings!
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arbind kumar said:
Real beauty is perceived in an old age .
On Sun, 17 Apr 2022, 06:46 Blessed with a Star on the Forehead, wrote:
> A Star on the Forehead posted: ” “Youth is happy because it has the > capacity to see beauty. Anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty never > grows old.” ― Franz Kafka I am in Brazil at the moment. I came to see my > family and bring my mom back with me to spend 3 weeks in NY. I have ” >
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Arbind,
You are right! Real beauty comes with age and experience.
Blessings!
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arbind kumar said:
Thanks !
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Cassa Bassa said:
no way Jose, he is 80 years old. He inspired me too. Thank you so much for writing this post and sharing Ana!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you so much Cassa! Blessings!
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Sheree said:
What a charming encounter
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you Sheree,
It was indeed! Blessings!
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Wendy said:
Very cool!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you Wendy! Blessings!
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Letitgocoach said:
That’s so wonderful Ana, to meet someone so inspiring! A divine appointment indeed. I saw life getting really good after 50, and am more excited than ever to see what the second half has in store. Enjoy your trip and may every encounter resemble the one with Jose. 💖
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Barb,
It was indeed. Everything happens for a reason. I feel blessed for having to call an Uber and having met him because of it. It does feel that the next decades can be amazing.
Thank you and blessings to you!
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Letitgocoach said:
💖
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utesmile said:
There you go, amazing fit people out htere
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A Star on the Forehead said:
yes, a lot inspiring people!
Blessing to you Ute!
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Inkplume said:
I love stories like this one about healthy, active, positive people who refuse to let age be a barrier to new adventures!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Linda,
Me too! I love when I encounter them, and I have been meeting them more often now.
Thank you for the visit! Blessings!
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Kat said:
I love this. What a wonderful encounter with a real life teacher! Thank you so much for sharing it Ana. ♥️☕️
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The V Pub said:
I bet Jose doesn’t have a cat. 😀
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hahaha, we didn’t talk about pets, but I would venture a guess he does not have a cat!! Lol
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Cindy Georgakas said:
Glad you made it safe and sound with an amazing inspiring Uber driver!!!💕👏👏
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you Cindy!
Blessings!
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Cindy Georgakas said:
Hi Anna Star,
You’re welcome!! 💖💖
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kegarland said:
We all need a Jose in our lives! I love this part “doesn’t stay on the phone chit-chatting with friends, no time for that. His friends know he is there if they need him.”
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi KE,
I love that also. I have always been like that, so I like meeting people that think similarly.
Blessings!
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DutchIl said:
Thank you for sharing!!.. glad your experience with Uber ended well and hope your adventure with family is filled with love and happiness, enjoy your time with your Mom and family and gather more fond memories… I am 77 and anything is possible if you are “young at heart”.. 🙂
Until we meet again..
May love and laughter light your days,
and warm your heart and home.
May good and faithful friends be yours,
wherever you may roam.
May peace and plenty bless your world
with joy that long endures.
May all life’s passing seasons
bring the best to you and yours!
(Irish Saying)
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Larry,
You do seem much younger than 77, but that just goes to prove that the number is meaningless. It is all about the heart and attitude.
Thank you and blessings!
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pam@ichoosethis said:
Oh my gosh. How inspiring! I love meeting people like this. And you’re right – life at 56 is just beginning. I stressed about turning 50 for about 20 years. When it finally happened, it was one of the best things in life. Instead of being focused on work, I’m focused on my complete well being. I’ll keep these nuggets in my back pocket – thanks for sharing this!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Pam,
I have to agree, 56 is getting less scary and more powerful with each passing day. This mind shift of focusing less on work is doing wonders for me also.
I can see how you are living your best life now!
Thank you and blessings!
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chattykerry said:
Jose was so inspiring – still having a zest for life at 80. I have had some very interesting Uber rides.
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A Star on the Forehead said:
I got lucky. I hear some Uber awful stories!
Blessings Kerry!
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chattykerry said:
I have had a couple of bad Uber drivers but generally not. K x
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