“Ask not what you can do for your country. Ask what’s for lunch.” ―
Let’s talk about lunch.
In Brazil lunch is a big deal. Specially in small towns. I am sure people in the big cities such as Sao Paulo and Rio are not obsessing about lunch as much as people in the small towns.
Many people have 2 hours lunch break. I can’t imagine doing that.
It is 8am, we are having breakfast and already talking about the menu for lunch. My mom likes lunch to be served at 12pm, so that the afternoon coffee can be had between 3 and 4pm.
I didn’t realize how crazy it all really was until I was in charge of preparing lunch. My Mom was always the cook, but since her hip is really bad, that duty fell to my brother. The reason why I went to Brazil, besides to see my parents, was to give my brother a break from taking care of my parents.
So, for 2 weeks, lunch was on me. Anywhere in Brazil one can find plenty of good food to buy. There are tons of places that sell by the weight or a premade plate. They are often very good and reasonably priced.
Unfortunately, no matter from what restaurant we order, my parents always find something wrong with the food. My mother is a wonderful cook. Her food is indeed hard to top.
I barely survived the 2 weeks. Thinking of what to make, making it, serving it, then storing the leftovers, and cleaning up, takes so much time and energy. Thanks Heaven I didn’t have to think about what to buy, as my brother left a very well stocked fridge, freezer and pantry. And 3 times a week a farmer comes with his van to sell produce and other items.
“I hate people who are not serious about meals. It is so shallow of them.” ―
I rather do anything else, but make lunch. I much rather clean, organize, do laundry, etc. And I did all of that too.
A typical lunch in Brazil is made up of:
- White Rice. ALWAYS!! Made by washing it (until water runs clear), sautéing very well with oil, garlic and onions, then add salt and boiling water. Let it simmer until desired tenderness.
- Beans. Wash and let it soak for a long time. Cook it on a pressure cooker, then sauté some of the beans in oil and garlic, then add the remainder of the beans, salt, plus additional water if need be.
- A protein: beef, pork, chicken or fish. My father doesn’t eat pork or fish, so when making those, beef is also made for him. We make beef in many different ways, roasted, grilled, stewed, etc. We are big fans of chicken fried steak, but it is so time consuming to make and it is not the healthiest. Also, no matter how we make it doesn’t come close to my mother’s, so I won’t even attempt.
- A vegetable: The ones we make most at my house are: zucchini, cabbage, chayote, okra, Scarlett eggplant, eggplant and carrots.
- A salad (fresh or sautéed): lettuce, chicory, arugula, kale, escarole
“After a good dinner one can forgive anybody, even one’s own relations.” ―
We don’t make pasta often, but on the rare occasion we make pasta Bolognese or pasta aioli, we will also have rice. If making potatoes, we will also make rice. Brazilians don’t have a problem with having many starches in one meal.
At breakfast in my house there is always plenty of fruits (mostly papaya, bananas, orange, tangerine and avocados), cheeses (often white farm cheese, and some other artisanal one), breads (French baguettes and some sweet ones), Coffee, milk. Never cereal, never eggs, never bacon.
The afternoon coffee is often a repeat of breakfast with the addition of some kind of cake. Often a yogurt or a cornmeal cake. When I am there, there will be an additional chocolate cake. There are also different types of cookies that gets delivered from a farmer to our door.
“We must have a pie. Stress cannot exist in the presence of a pie.” ―
In Brazil there are a lot of things sold door to door. Besides the farmer selling his produce and the cookie ladies (they also sell cheese and wine), there is always someone ringing the door bell trying to sell something. We buy something from everyone that knocks on our door. We just feel bad not helping.
In my 3 weeks there I bought tablecloths, dish towels, cleaning products, frozen cheese bread, and artisanal chocolates, among other items.
Of course I had to join in and indulge in every meal. What intermittent fasting? lol The best quality times are around the table, enjoying the food and discussing the next meal 🙂
I promise that next time I go to Brazil I will take pictures of at least some of the food.
“Let food be thy medicine and medicine be thy food.”―
That’s so interesting to know how the locals live through this article. I love the door to door sales tradition…
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The door to door is the best way to get fresh goods. That and going to the local farmers market.
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I’m going to have to google this Brazilian lunch extravaganza!
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ha, I was tired of cooking all of that, but I miss it already 🙂
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I have never been to Brazil, and you paint a lovely cultural picture of it in this post! I had no idea lunch was such an important meal!
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Hi Katie,
Lunch is the most important meal in Brazil. Dinner is normally something light, unless if going out to dinner. Brazil has many amazing things and sights 🙂
Thank you and sending you blessings! ♥♥
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That sounds like quite an ordeal. Nice if you’re the one being cooked and fed, but not for the chef. I’m sure your mother and brother appreciate the help. I know my mother is grateful for all the help during my visit.
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Yes indeed, but my mother loves cooking and thinks it is not a big deal. She is also very fast at it. It took me awhile to put a meal together.
They were very happy I was there 🙂
A lot respect for you for stepping up and being there for your mother 🙂
Blessings! ♥♥
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Thanks! 🙂
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What a delightful peek into your childhood home. I wouldn’t be able to waddle back to the US. Thanks for sharing so simple a message. The warmth of home through food.
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Hi Birdie,
Nice to see your face here 🙂
I waddled back lol I did gain a couple of pounds but, thanks heaven, I was very active there, so the damage was not bigger lol
Thank you and blessings to you! ♥♥
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It’s all about the lunch and sounds like great ones and convo at that💖💖💖💖
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Yes, indeed. Best time to have great conversation was always around the table 🙂 I miss it already ♥♥♥
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oh that’s soooo sweet and soooo happy for you❣️
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I am fascinated by such an elaborate lunch – I guess you have something light in the evening? When I was growing up in Scotland, most people had their main meal at lunchtime, called dinner, and then tea/supper at night. My Nana made our main meal at night but it was also an elaborate affair. Soup followed by meat and two vegetables and then dessert.
I bet you are looking forward to a slice of pizza!!
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Hi Kerry,
At night we had something light, or some leftovers from lunch. I tried to have fruit, but always ended with cake, followed by ice cream 😦
Brazilian pizza is different, but it can be pretty good also. I didn’t even think of having any – I like pizza, but it is never at the top of my list.
Blessings to you! ♥♥
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Oh, who can resist cake when you are visiting your family?? I didn’t really like pizza until I discovered gluten free pizzas. My favorite food is an avocado with salt and pepper. K x 🥑
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I have had some gluten free pizzas that were delicious.
When I was growing up in Brazil, avocados were only eaten with sugar sprinkled on it, or in a smoothie with milk and sugar. No wonder I am addicted to sugar.
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I can’t imagine putting sugar on avocadoes!! Mind you, Americans put sugar on sweet potatoes (and marshmallows)! K x
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oh yeah, that one was weird to us Brazilians. We don’t add anything to sweet potatoes. We just boil them and eat them that way.
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Me too, with salt, butter and lots of pepper!
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Interesting, I didn’t know any of this. Very good post!
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Thank you Inese!
Blessings! ♥♥
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This sounds like quite an ordeal!
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There were days that it did feel like that. But some of the best conversations were had around the table 🙂
Blessings KE! ♥♥
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❤
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Thank y0u for sharing your adventure!!… it may have seem like an ordeal at the time, mainly because it were a different routine, but I expect that in the end you did enjoy it and YOU did it!!… you go, girl!… 🙂
Until we meet again..
May your troubles be less
Your blessings be more
And nothing but happiness
Come through your door
(Irish Saying)
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I did enjoy it, specially being with my parents around the table. 🙂
I try to enjoy it all fully: going, being there, and also returning – they all have different joys!
Thank you always! Wishing you a blessed week Larry! ♥♥
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Lunch with the family is such a warm moment, isn’t it? With the pandemic, I miss the “carro do ovo”, it’s so nice to get the eggs right at your door. We’ll get them back soo, I hope! (late) Hugs!
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Hi Jay,
yes indeed! meals with my families are some of the best times.
Nothing beats fresh produces at my door.
Hugs and blessings to you! ♥♥
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