“Sometimes it’s about working with your bad parts, not fixing them.”
― Nowhere Near You
Hello friends,
Tomorrow will be one week since I arrived in Florida. This time we drove. 18 hours! It was not bad. We took turns driving. We left Saturday at 2:30am. We were supposed to spend the Saturday night at a hotel halfway there.
I suggested driving directly to Florida, because… I am me… I like results, I like getting there. Yes, it is about the journey, not the destination. Sometimes I forget that. Michael took the wait and see approach. He wanted to see how tired he was going to be, and also watch the tired.
In the end, we drove 18 hours including the multiple breaks, and arrived at Michael’s place at 8:30pm. We both agreed that it was the best decision. We weren’t tired, and we had the whole Sunday to get stuff in order before my work on Monday.
Since I arrived here, I have been overwhelmed with office work. This is my busiest time. I have an audit to submit, compliance review, bonus calculations, taxes, etc.
I hope there will be some time to relax before we get back to NY. I probably work harder in Florida than in NY. I guess I don’t want to make it seem that I am in Florida relaxing instead of working.
I am still struggling with work/life balance. I need to work less, and have more fun. More mosaics, more exercise, more blogging, more reading, more skiing. No more crying about it, I will just keep trying to do better next time.
I have so much to write about… gosh, it is the same song and dance every time. I will try to do better 😊 The goal is the same: to write more and to publish posts instead of leaving them in Drafts folder. With that in mind, I am hitting publish on this mess. Please forgive the typos.
Have a wonderful weekend! You are loved and deserving of the best weekend ever – go claim it!!
ps. I meant to post it yesterday, and of course, I forgot it in the Drafts 🙂
You are funny. Lol My daughter lives near where you are, I believe. Shes had it a little rough there since she moved in November. Having a hard time finding the right job that pays what she needs. Shes been sending us videos of the rain and storms. Hopefully the weather will be nice while you are there. Thanks for posting today. I miss your posts. ♥️
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HI Andi,
I am sorry your daughter is having issues finding a good job here. I hope that soon things will turn around and she will find the perfect job for her.
Thank you for being supportive of my writing. You motivate me to post more.
Blessings!
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She’s strong and smart. She will figure it out. 🙂
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I am sure she will! And she will be stronger and smarter for it!
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Sounds like a good plan and I’d be more like you, get there and get settled in rather than drag out the getting there process
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Exactly! 🙂
Blessings to you!
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Work and relationship are two big things Ana. Since those are taking large parts of your life, maybe you can accept that and be gentle with yourself or rebalance according to your priorities. Enjoy what you can.
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Hi Brad,
Thank you for the reminder to be gentle to myself.
It is so easy for me to forget that. I often think I have to always be getting things done and having to show results.
Blessings to you!
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Wow, 18 hrs and not a big deal. is truelove my friend!!! That’s awesome.
Have fun, work less, do it it now says the life coach with lots on her plate. Hugs and love my friend❣️
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Hi Cindy,
Since this is a direct order from such an experience and knowledgeable life coach, I feel I must follow it!
Less work and more fun it is!!
Thank you for the hugs. Sending some back to you!
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Wow, I did the clock math and you left very early in the morning. Good for you. We do a similar one-day drive to the Canadian East Coast – slightly shorter at 15 hours. We’re delirious by the end of it but it’s worth it for the time and hotel savings.
Good luck with getting through your busy season and hope you get to enjoy Florida on your downtime!
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For some reason the drive was not bad at all. We were tired, but nothing more. I am not sure the drive back will be as easy… we shall see.
I imagine your view of the Canadian East Coast is much better than my view form I-95, not that I would want to spend 15 looking at any view, no matter how beautiful.
Thank you for the good wishes! I feel them. Blessings to you!
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The Canadian East Coast can feel monotonous too but yes there are some beautiful scenery along the drive.
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Even beauty can get monotonous. Variety, even in landscape, is the spice of life 🙂
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Remember to make time for yourself. 🙂
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Please keep reminding me. I need constant reminders!
And you too, put yourself first!!
Blessings!
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What mattered was that you posted it and I got to read your post. 👏🌻💚
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Thank you Cassa, for reading and always being so supportive!
Blessings!
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I loved your title on this post! I rarely draft a post and leave it sit there, maybe it would be a good idea to do that more often, I tend to be impulsive, and hit publish right away on everything!
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