“If we had no winter, the spring would not be so pleasant: if we did not sometimes taste of adversity, prosperity would not be so welcome.” ― Anne Bradstreet, The Works of Anne Bradstreet
Saturday morning I walked out of my building and felt a cold drizzle on my face. I felt alive! I love rainy days and winter the same way people like summer and sunshine. As I was walking and basking in the moment a woman coming out of a store bumps into me. Instead of saying excuse me or good morning, she says: “It is such a miserable day!” I think she mostly said it to herself and not to me, but still it felt like the wrong thing to say.
At that moment it hit me that this woman was setting herself up to have a bad day just because of a little cold rain. I don’t understand it. Why do people let the weather dictate their mood? I know that there are some people that suffer from SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder), but I think the majority of people just have a dislike for winter weather and not any real disorder.
“It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.”― Epictetus
I am not here to defend the rain and winter and to say start loving the cold weather. Oh wait, I am here to do just that! First, I am here to say that each one of us, human, animal, object, weather patterns, etc, we all have our functions to perform to the best of our abilities. We cannot blame the rain for being wet and messing up our hair or blame the cold because we can no long wear shorts. They are doing their job and deserve respect. Second, I am here to tell you to appreciate everything around you, specially the things that may annoy you or make your life a little more complicated. Appreciate the things you love, such as sunshine, but appreciate the things that you don’t care for even more. Find a way to see beauty and meaning in them.
“The invariable mark of wisdom is to see the miraculous in the common.” ― Ralph Waldo Emerson
I happen to love rain and snow, so rainy days and snowy days are particularly pleasant to me. Yes, go ahead and hate me for it. 🙂 I also like dark places with curtains and windows closed. I adore days that when I wake up it is so dark that I cannot tell if it is day or night. Don’t get alarmed I like light and sun light too, I do! I just see the beauty and comfort in thunderstorms outside while I am cozy inside. Perhaps I am, in a way, hiding from the world. I think a psychologist would have a wonderful time with me! 🙂 I am so happy and yet so dark.
I am also saying if change your mind your outlook will change and that will only yield positive results. Specially in the morning when you have the whole day ahead, don’t let little, or big, things set yourself up to having a bad day. Don’t call the day miserable because of a little rain. What will make the day miserable or not is your attitude towards it.
“At the end of the day, let there be no excuses, no explanations, no regrets.” ― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free
Rain to me is life! Cold to me is energy! Snow to me is beauty and challenge (as in skiing)! Dark to me is comfort! Loving summer, sun, spring, flowers, that is easy, the value is in loving what is the difficult.
What would summer be without winter? Not as pleasurable that is for sure!
Don’t use the weather, or anything else, as an excuse to be miserable!
The other day while cleaning some files I came across the little card pictured below. I put it on my bathroom mirror so that every day I have an extra reminder to begin my day with gratitude in my heart!
gerard oosterman said:
We had a good winter and just now heavenly late spring rain. Trees are dripping, flowers drinking. All is good.
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Awesome! I love the way you described it. I could actually picture the flowers drinking. All is indeed good and beautiful! Blessings! 🙂
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rknutson1104 said:
I totally agree. Gratitude is everything!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
🙂 Blessings!
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thelastsongiheard said:
Here in CA, I actually miss the cold, rainy days… and snow. I miss snow.
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A Star on the Forehead said:
I feel your pain! Perhaps this winter you will have a chance to get close to snow. I heard there are some nice ski resorts there, but probably not anywhere near you….Blessings and wishing snow on you! 🙂
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catterel said:
You speak from my heart! Thank you for expressing it so well.
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you! I do speak form the heart and I love it when it is understood and appreciated! Blessings! 🙂
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Noelle Granger said:
I’m with you! While my husband hates winter, I revel in it. I love spring and summer, and fall is my favorite time of year; but one of the greatest things about a year is there is a time for snow and rain, being cozy, enjoying enough cold to tingle your nose and ears and watching your breath in the air!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Can you imagine never seeing snow again? I can’t! I love Brazil, but can’t bear to be away from cold and snow!
Let it snow! Let it snow! Let it snow! 🙂
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betunada said:
i happen to heartedly concur. 4 distinct seasons makes for “more” — of what? experience extremes, expands the range, and definitely like you said: the “nice” days are nicer!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Nicely put! Blessings! 🙂
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weggieboy said:
Count your blessings!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
I am running out of fingers…:-)
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Jami said:
Living in a rainy, cloudy place like Holland, you have to appreciate it! I love those days when I can curl up cozy with a book…and also the sunny days! I love all weather, too. Earth is a beautiful system that we can only respect with a sense of awe.
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A Star on the Forehead said:
“Sense of awe” – I love that! Holland is definitely on my list of countries to visit. Enjoy all the clouds and also the sun when it appears. Blessings! 🙂
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Jami said:
Let me know of you ever do!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
I will! You do the same if you are ever in NY! 🙂
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utesmile said:
What a wonderful message you are sending out. I agree with you and cannot understand how people are miserable because of the weather either. The sun is in your heart and can still shine.
Enjoy every weather and season as every season has its beauty.
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Ute Thank you! That is exactly the truth, the sun is indeed in our hearts no matter what is going on outside! Many blessings! 🙂
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iwillbloom said:
Brilliant, brilliant post and wonderful, wonderful blog! [Hoping I’ve managed to follow you by ticking the ‘Notify me of new posts by email’ button (it *should* do what it says on the tin, surely?!)]
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you, thank you! Not sure exactly if that works, normally I just click on “Follow” at the top. But thank you so much for the follow and the compliment! Blessings! 🙂
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iwillbloom said:
Compliment: well deserved. Blessings: thank you and right back at you!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
🙂 happy!
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Christy Birmingham said:
Lovely post! Let’s not let a little rain dampen our spirits 🙂
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you! Exactly! Blessings! 🙂
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Jane Thorne said:
You write with such ❤ xX
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Hi Jane
Thank you so much! Blessings! 🙂
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