This is the question that I have been pondering over lately.
Do I active seek love or just go about my business and let it find me?
And when I say “love” I mean soul mate, my partner for life, I don’t mean just a date or a roll in the hay.
Because the truth is, I don’t need a boyfriend, but I want one. I do plenty of stuff alone and I adore my own company. But there are a lot moments where it would be could to have a partner.
I am already happy, so I don’t need someone to make me happy. I want someone to share my happiness.
Getting back to love finding me, it should be pretty easy, one would think, since I have been blessed with a star on my forehead. But what I realize that only the special someone will see the star and find me.
Now the question is: Where is he?
Did he give up looking for me and married somebody else?
I thought I had found him, but the truth is I wanted him so much that I made him up. Ex was so charming that I figure this is it.
So, right now I am on e-Harmony. But sometimes it just smells of desperation, of offering myself.
I like to think that I am being pro-active, like they say about the Lottery, you have to be in it to win it, so I guess this is my way of being in it!.
So are you actively pursuing love or are you waiting until it finds you?
Marie Alesbury said:
Hi, stumbled upon your post and loved it! I used to ask myself that same question all the time wondering when my soul mate would turn up! Just written a very short post….perhaps you will find it useful …http://awakentoyourheart.wordpress.com/2012/05/23/still-searching-for-love-worrying-if-your-soulmate-actually-exists-i-have-38-words-for-you/
One piece of advice if i may…whatever you do, don’t worry about it…sending you sparkly love vibes!
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A Star on the Forehead said:
Thank you for the advice! Great post! and indeed letting go, not only of fears but everything else is the key! Daily, life is getting better and better! 🙂
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Marie Alesbury said:
Just wanted to add….he will be wondering about you just as much as you are wondering about him! I promise…make sure you are sending out what i like to call the right “love signals” so he can find you…also check in with yourself and make sure you feel worthy of being loved…just give this some thought and i reckon it will help
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A Star on the Forehead said:
again great advice!! Thank you! the signals that we send out to the Universe are important, so I am working on that and also I am working on being the person I would want to date. And I am having fun! Thank you again for the great advice!!
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